I believe that unborn babies are conscious and can feel pain.
But even if this is not true...it still remains that since we can not create life, we have no right to take it away from anyone. Our bodies are not our own, whether we like it or not, and whether we know it or not...and we can not do whatever we want with them. The original sin was people wanting to be 'their own masters'. Sure we have free will, but people use free will to do evil all the time, and that doesn't change what good is and what evil is. That is determined by God. Taking away life can not be something that God supports.
Many pro-choice people say that abortion can 'help' women who can't afford to raise a child, etc. Well, there is solution to this that does not involve killing: give the baby up for adoption! Of course that is difficult too, but at least the baby would be alive and have the chance to experience life on earth, develop a relationship with God, and contribute to this world. I believe that all aborted babies (and in fact all infants who die) automatically go to heaven. But I believe that abortion grieves God... I think that Jesus is very sad when He sees His little ones being torn apart in their mothers womb by so-called "doctors".
I am not blaming the women, btw. I think that mostly, they are misinformed. Probably if they realized what abortion truly is, and what it means, fewer of them would choose to go through with it. I think that we must increase awareness in our society of what actually takes place during an abortion....that is what Fr. Frank Pavone is trying to do. And of course, we should show mercy and love to women who went through the procedure, and remember that God wants to forgive them, if only they'd ask Him. But as long as we continue the lie that abortion is something good and acceptable, these women would not see the reason to ask God for forgiveness, and would attribute the guilt they feel to things like "religious upbringing", etc.
And yes there are many women who regret abortions later on, who suffer from depression and other problems... many women who get abortions can never have a baby again!!!
So is pregnancy and birth.
hmmmmm the difference is that pregnancy and birth result in a new child who brings joy to the mother and others. Abortion results in one thing: death. And what's horrible is that this death is not natural, but the baby is murdered by the doctor in the way that Fr. Provone described.