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What 1 thing do u need to make ur life complete?

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Honestly thats one thing on my want list too but here recently I feel as though God has been guiding me that He is the only one who can make my life completeand slowly I am comeing around to the same conclusion. One thing that i have realized is that no matter how much you love a person they can never make complete.
 
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what one thing do i need to make my life complete? to keep growing in God and keep developing into the person He wants me to be, and has made me to be. i also *do* want that special boy to come my way one of these days ;) but i'm waiting on God's timing for that.
 
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Its the end of my workday,,,i'm stressed,,what i need most now is an awesome back workout to clear my mind. Followed by a meal,,,then a run, and then a beer. :)

Ultimately,,,a family and kids in about 3-5 yrs. I suppose i should find a girl first, but thats just small details. ;)
 
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I don't want to be alone anymore either; as I've been wrestling with this recently I've realized that God is drawing me closer to Him, and I know that I'll never really be "alone". As comforting as this is, and as much as I know that everything will happen in God's time, my heart continues to ache for that special someone... :sigh:
 
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invisiblebabe said:
what one thing do i need to make my life complete? to keep growing in God and keep developing into the person He wants me to be, and has made me to be. i also *do* want that special boy to come my way one of these days ;) but i'm waiting on God's timing for that.

I second that!
 
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It's hard to give just one thing. The human tendency is when we've achieved one thing we are bound to want something else. I'm doing Living Free by Beth Moore right now and she talked about it. We need to let go of any "idols" and strongholds in our lives and just let God to satisfy us. See, this world tells us that we shouldn't just be satisfied with one thing but we must get more
 
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God.

I could lose it all and God would still be there. Love doesn't make a person complete. Sure, it makes you happy that you found the love of your life and it is wonderful to be in love, but he/she could be taken away from you in second...then what would happen? You have to be happy with who you are and what you already have. It's hard I know.

And like the poster above me said, it's hard to just find one thing to complete your life. You have to be content with what you have been blessed with. And people will ALWAYS want more. So after they get the one thing they think will make their lives better, something else will need to fill the hole in their life.
 
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Besides Jesus (since that's the obvious answer everyone would put down)? An intimate female companion. Noah had Ally in "The Notebook," Peter Parker had Mary Jane in "Spider Man," Jack had Rose in "Titanic," Clark Kent had Lois Lane in "Superman," and Adam had Eve in Genesis. The thought remains: what about me? :)
 
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I think that, at this time in my life, I would most like to have peace in my heart with God. Everything is so up and down... so confusing. Everyone is saying they want love... well I've found love but its in an unequally yolked relationship so its hard to say if its the love that I truly need... love in a Godly relationship... how wonderful it would be to share the love of God with someone else... oh now I'm babbling... :) anyway, my answer is about the same as the rest... peace and love would be wonderful.
 
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Well said Belle. Finding your spouse and marrying them is wonderful but it does not make your life complete, only God can do that. IN fact being married brings all it's own problems and most people who have been married a while will tell you that it is possible to have times where you can be just as lonely married as you were single!
 
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