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When I first saw this post, I was thinking, this has to be the most ridiculous poll question ever. I'm like, duh, sex! But when you think of it more, there is a definite emotional connection before and especially after sex, especially in regards to the female. Though it'll be fun for both in the long run.

I also like that idea of "no boundaries." Whether you get really emotional or really physical, it doesn't matter, because what happens happens. The concept of "no regrets" sounds incredible... not having any second thoughts in the morning must be awesome.
 
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Although I look forward to the night that Me and My Wife have sex, however--I know that the first night of sex, is going to be the first in a long life of sex. So, why get worked up about that night? I look forward to the fact of being with someone forever. I havent met the person in my life, to spend forever--with...and I will just be overwhelmingly overjoyed when that woman is joined flesh to flesh, bone to bone, blood and blood, all in all--to me.

What a great night, and a great life we'll share together.
 
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I voted physical That was my first thought and I didn't take much time to focus on the answers. See, the emotional connection and intimacy is overall more important in the long run. But the way I see it, the major thing that the wedding night implies is being able to have sex with that person you already love and are already emotionally connected to but not physically. So yea, I look forward to that. That doesnt mean that's my reason for marriage. Like I said the emotional and spiritual respect is more important in the long run but I have to admit, I'd be looking forward to physical intimacy on my wedding night more than anything else.

. . . . . .Maybe I'm the only one really being honest??

. . . .Well, I really don't think I'm shallow. I just went with my first instinct.

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No, I'm looking forward to sex, but also other things. It's part of the good things that I'm looking forward to. I think it all goes together - the physical, the emotional, trust, connection, etc...- especially when you are marrying someone you love very much.
 
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wedding night...I imagine we'll be so tired not alot happens..

honestly, I'm just looking forward to being able to fall asleep holding the woman I love. (And waking up with her as well...)
The intimate stuff...well, that will happen when it happens. I'm not in a hurry for that.
 
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Even though I'm looking forward to the physical part, I'm particularly looking forward for the feeling of connection. Knowing that it would be the first night with the woman who'll I'll spend the remainder of my days with, and who'll be my equal partner in everything we do. I think if the emotional side of it is there, that will greatly contribute to how good and easy our sex life is.
 
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I wanted to say "both," but since that's not really an option and the question is what I'm looking forward to "most," I put the emotional connection. Knowing that here I am with this girl, no boundaries between us, able to lose ourselves in each other in a cloud of love and adoration, holding her close in the most intimate way possible, fully trusting and open with each other, being as close as possible to each other - actually inside her.

Dang. That's freaking awesome. Now, um, just to find that girl - or better yet, have God bring us together. Oh, how impatient I grow in learning this lesson of patience.

Note: of course, I do not mean to downplay the physical aspect at all. Of all people, I know very well the power of pleasure the body is capable of feeling and so desperately desire for that special young lady to experience that powerful rush of raw, unbridled, physical pleasure. How true it is that the physical pleasure fiercely forges the bond between a man and his wife in a passionate heat that reigns supreme.
 
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