Normally, I lurk around forums and sometimes join. This time it's different.
I'm 52, been a Born-Again Christian for 29 years now, and I don't really have many friends.
In a sense, its okay, because its a big part of my personality. I was diagnosed last year with an "Autism Spectrum Disorder," which is the social equivalent of being color blind. I don't "read" group dynamics, don't think much of them, and tend to stick to myself in general.
Lately, it's caused problems and I wanted to see if I could find some help on this board.
Let me know if I'm in the right place. (And forgive me in advance if I say something "unfiltered" or just socially abrasive. Not intentional, but happens frequently.
(On the good side, I'm usually willing to tell it like it is, and being straight-up with my understandings is a strong suit. I don't "go along to get along," so doctrinal matters are very cut and dried for me.)
That said, God has been showing me a lot of the realities of my monochromatic outlook, and it's a lot more gray-scale than I would have imagined. Good, for my growth, Bad, for my preferences. (oh well.)
"Let God be true and every man a liar."
I'm 52, been a Born-Again Christian for 29 years now, and I don't really have many friends.
In a sense, its okay, because its a big part of my personality. I was diagnosed last year with an "Autism Spectrum Disorder," which is the social equivalent of being color blind. I don't "read" group dynamics, don't think much of them, and tend to stick to myself in general.
Lately, it's caused problems and I wanted to see if I could find some help on this board.
Let me know if I'm in the right place. (And forgive me in advance if I say something "unfiltered" or just socially abrasive. Not intentional, but happens frequently.
(On the good side, I'm usually willing to tell it like it is, and being straight-up with my understandings is a strong suit. I don't "go along to get along," so doctrinal matters are very cut and dried for me.)
That said, God has been showing me a lot of the realities of my monochromatic outlook, and it's a lot more gray-scale than I would have imagined. Good, for my growth, Bad, for my preferences. (oh well.)
"Let God be true and every man a liar."