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[mebby02]

I'm so upset right now been crying almost to the point l have been hurting myself. I have been drinking smoking pot and having smokes. This is what happend l dated this guy for 15 months and then he was so mean to me so l got mad and said cheated out of anger. Now he is telling everyone on my facebook all my friends l cheated and l never did. All my friends believe him and not me everyone turned there backs on me. And on facebook he is spreading horrible rumours about me. I told him how I felt he doesn't rude my emails he just deletes them. I'm so alone and depressed I need someone to help me out there. I don't know what to do anymore

 

[DoesAnybodyHearHer]

im online at the mo ... pm me if you want to tlk
Praying for you!!

 

[bubblefish]

I am praying for you Mebby.
Hun, I know it is difficult but try not to let him get to you. He is not worth it. Your real friends will stick by you, or come around eventually. You can get through this!
Is there someone you can talk to? A family member or pastor? Someone you can tell that you are not feeling too great. It sometimes helps just to talk to someone.
Also, if you ever want to talk or need anything my PM box is always open.

 

[AWorkInProgress]

I'm so upset right now been crying almost to the point l have been hurting myself. I have been drinking smoking pot and having smokes. This is what happend l dated this guy for 15 months and then he was so mean to me so l got mad and said cheated out of anger. Now he is telling everyone on my facebook all my friends l cheated and l never did. All my friends believe him and not me everyone turned there backs on me. And on facebook he is spreading horrible rumours about me. I told him how I felt he doesn't rude my emails he just deletes them. I'm so alone and depressed I need someone to help me out there. I don't know what to do anymore

Hello there sister,

First you need to start by forgiving yourself. Take a deep breathe and let go of all that fears. Life is full of ups and downs, but remember thru it all the Lord is always with you. You know the truth and the real story to this situation. If your friends want to choose sides without hearing your side of the story, just going to have to forgive them and keep moving forward.

Pot, smoking, and drinking is just a sign of pain in your heart that you are trying self medicate. Doesn't mean you are a less of a person, just means you need some help. As you align yourself to the Lord and give up your inner pain to him. Slowly your heart will be put back together again, protected by his hands instead of a humans.

Luke 6:46-49

Building on a Solid Foundation

46 “So why do you keep calling me ‘Lord, Lord!’ when you don’t do what I say? 47 I will show you what it’s like when someone comes to me, listens to my teaching, and then follows it. 48 It is like a person building a house who digs deep and lays the foundation on solid rock. When the floodwaters rise and break against that house, it stands firm because it is well built. 49 But anyone who hears and doesn’t obey is like a person who builds a house without a foundation. When the floods sweep down against that house, it will collapse into a heap of ruins.”

God knows your heart, and loves when we humble ourselves to him. Some how, some way, take a moment to just speak to him. Just pour out all your emotional pain to him. He is listening, even when we don't think he is. Pray to him for the strength and courage to get thru this. He will give it.

Matthew 7:7

“Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you.

You are most certainly not the first to feel this type of pain. King David had to face ridicule in the myst of lies. We are created for expression and to have a relationship. So giving these deep fears and worries to the Lord is healthy. To give up things you can not control to the person who controls all. Trust in him, trust in the rock the solid foundation he is.

Psalms 54

1 Listen to my prayer, O God.
Do not ignore my cry for help!
2 Please listen and answer me,
for I am overwhelmed by my troubles.
3 My enemies shout at me,
making loud and wicked threats.
They bring trouble on me
and angrily hunt me down. 4 My heart pounds in my chest.
The terror of death assaults me.
5 Fear and trembling overwhelm me,
and I can’t stop shaking.
6 Oh, that I had wings like a dove;
then I would fly away and rest!
7 I would fly far away
to the quiet of the wilderness.
Interlude

8 How quickly I would escape—
far from this wild storm of hatred.
9 Confuse them, Lord, and frustrate their plans,
for I see violence and conflict in the city.
10 Its walls are patrolled day and night against invaders,
but the real danger is wickedness within the city.
11 Everything is falling apart;
threats and cheating are rampant in the streets.
12 It is not an enemy who taunts me—
I could bear that.
It is not my foes who so arrogantly insult me—
I could have hidden from them.
13 Instead, it is you—my equal,
my companion and close friend.
14 What good fellowship we once enjoyed
as we walked together to the house of God.
15 Let death stalk my enemies;
let the grave[b] swallow them alive,
for evil makes its home within them.
16 But I will call on God,
and the Lord will rescue me.
17 Morning, noon, and night
I cry out in my distress,
and the Lord hears my voice.
18 He ransoms me and keeps me safe
from the battle waged against me,
though many still oppose me.
19 God, who has ruled forever,
will hear me and humble them.
Interlude

For my enemies refuse to change their ways;
they do not fear God.
20 As for my companion, he betrayed his friends;
he broke his promises.
21 His words are as smooth as butter,
but in his heart is war.
His words are as soothing as lotion,
but underneath are daggers!
22 Give your burdens to the Lord,
and he will take care of you.
He will not permit the godly to slip and fall.
23 But you, O God, will send the wicked
down to the pit of destruction.
Murderers and liars will die young,
but I am trusting you to save me.