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[Living4Him03]

Well, so I helped a friend of mine, who I also happen to have a crush on, on a paper he had due last weekend. We had a good time hanging out and I didn't think I did or said anything that would have upset him. I sent him a text message on Tuesday or Wednesday of this past week to find out if he got the paper all finished and to see when he would find out his grade. I haven't gotten a response from him and he hasn't attempted to contact me at all since that time, which is pretty strange for him. He did send me a text message I didn't get until a few days later, because I had my cell turned off (it's an old crappy one where you have to get a minutes card). I did get back to him, though by sending him a text message back explaining what happened.

I'm not the type of girl to pursue a guy. I didn't want to bug him any further because maybe he's been busy, but it just seems really strange that he hasn't at least attempted to contact me in some way to say hello or at least something. My question is, should I contact him and ask him what's going on? Or, should I just forget him and let him contact me? Thanks.

 

[wildthing]

Could be the prof has not return the paper yet. That's one reason not to talk to you. But I think it was in bad form on his part not to talk to you at all. I think if he gets a good grade on the paper he should a least take you out and at the most take you out with flowers. This is the way I handle things in Michigan.

In a few more days I would ask him what grade we got on the paper?

 

[Living4Him03]

Eh well, he doesn't really notice me "like that"...so I seriously doubt he will take me out much less get me flowers as well lol. He said thank you and bought me an apple juice at the gas station before we went to the computer lab to work on the paper. There's no reason why he would feel obligated to take me out because I helped him. I just feel like that's the only reason he wanted to spend time with me, so that he could get help with the paper, and now he doesn't wanna be seen.

 

[TriptychR]

Well, if it's been anything like it has at university here lately, he might've been incredibly busy with midterms and junk. I don't see any harm in calling him up and asking how the paper came out.