Update on my relationship

[Vasichko]

Well back in March my girlfriend and I split, she dumped me, said things werent working. During the process I have gotten closer to God and made improvements to myself, which I feel I am a better and more positive person from it.

Well Im out of town, I live in Dallas, and have been in Boston, for a month and will be here another month then go home.

Well about my 2nd week she called and said she had realized alot of things about herself and wanted to work things out. Before we broke up we had talked about marriage and she said she was deciding if she could spend the rest of her life with me.

So now she is coming to visit next week, the first time I will have seen her in about 2 months or so.

Funny how God works his ways.

I also want to thank the people on here that helped me as well.

Thanks...

 

[MN John]

Lift the relationship up to God in prayer... be careful to seek His will for your life which may or may not be best served through this relationship.

 

[HolyOne87]

That's great. God works in wondrous ways!

 

[Nobility]

Hey ya.. only one little piece of advice my mum taught me Never get back into a relationship with someone unless things have really changed.

my girlfriend and I split, she dumped me, said things werent working

I'd be wanting to know what things weren't working, and how they've changed.

 

[Vasichko]

Hey ya.. only one little piece of advice my mum taught me Never get back into a relationship with someone unless things have really changed.

I'd be wanting to know what things weren't working, and how they've changed.

Yeah, we have talked about alot of things. I feel comfortable with the situation. I dont want to put myself in the same spot I was in before. She said she has realized alot of things about herself. At the same time she said when she went out with her friends, she noticed things about other guys that I wouldnt do, or wouldnt say and she said it made her miss me.

The main problem with her was communicating with me, understanding that you have to compromise with things, and other things here and there.

When she said she wanted to work it out I told her I didnt know and I would think about it. When I made my decision, she told me some things, we talked, and I think she has really changed. Only time will tell.