I want to meet these peopleLeap Year was an absolutely ridiculous horrible movie. Plus, I am so much cooler than her
PEOPLE STILL OWN CASTLES, SEAN.
Am I?
It's a plain and simple fact that women don't like touching me, at all. Not even to show platonic affection. That can't be tested over the internet, but it is borne out by my offline experience.
I can believe - just barely - that a woman can find me generically attractive or cute or handsome, because I do not believe that you and other women here would lie to me. But when it comes to the nudity and the touching and stuff... I mean, I find the idea yucky, and I live in this body. That's asking me to suspend my disbelief a little too far.
Okay, I admit the possibility that there could be a woman out there who would not be grossed out by naked!me.
But that doesn't suggest a probability high enough to make me confident about the idea. And the empirical evidence (that all the women I've encountered up to this point are uncomfortable in close proximity to me, and visibly negatively affected by actual contact; excluding relatives and a couple girls who were already dating someone else - go figure) suggests the opposite.
Enough empirical evidence suggests a trend which can be reasonably predicted to continue, caeteris paribus. The question is whether caeteris will always remain paribus, and if not, how one could go about un-paribusing it.
Two issues here: biased sample
That's a tough pill to swallow. Especially after being called, directly and through "the grapevine", everything from "overly forward" to "creepy". Of course that has only happened a few times, but it wasn't too hard for me to figure out:and confirmation bias due to a subjective evaluator employing subjective methods.
Caetaris paribus means "all other things remaining equal". In other words, unless I can change the parameters somehow, I can expect the past trend to continue into the future. But I don't know which parameters can be changed, or how to change them if they can (except for moving out of the area, but I'm going to be stuck here for a long time).Whoosh. That's over my head.
Which makes the fact that it's an unreasonable expectation pretty tough to cope with.
I know how sexual attraction develops, in theory. Read my discussion with Tamara on this and the last page and maybe you'll understand why I feel the way I do.
I actually like doing the dishes. Its therapeutic for me.
I'm pretty sure mine are unreasonable for 98% of guys in the world lol.
Intelligent
Abstract thinker
Has ambition
Doesn't mind animals (including invertebrates, rodents and farm animals)
Is health conscious
Active and in good shape
Likes outdoor activities like hiking, biking, running, surfing etc
Likes to travel
Is environmentally conscious
Is not from an Abrahamic faith (atheist, agnostic, deist, pantheist, pagan, buddhist are all acceptable)
Enjoys reading
Not wishy washy or whimpy
She must find me sexually attractive.
...Oh, don't be so silly. I can't imagine men wanting to touch or see me naked either. But that's based on how I feel about myself, not on how others feel about me.
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