I agree with Nater_Tater's reply. Thatz how i do too. It is also good to sing a few hymn songs of praise before you start reading the Bible as it will condition your heart to be receptive to the Word of God.
The Bible says in
Luke:24:45:
Then opened he their understanding, that they might understand the scriptures,
So, unless He opens our mind and our understanding we cannot understand the Bible. Therefore, pls pray and ask the Lord to help you before you read the Bible. Pls see to it that there is no external disturbance/distractions while you read the Bible. And do not read the Bible in a hurried manner.
Pls do not be discouraged by your Husband's words or anyone else's words. Everyone interprets Bible in a different way in minor things although we may agree in the major things.
Every Child of God WILL be able to understand the Bible (although the pace of understanding may wary from individual to individual) as is written in the Bible in
John:6:45: "
It is written in the prophets, And they shall be all taught of God".
Go on reading as the Spirit prompts you to read. Do not limit yourself to several verses or to a single chapter a day. Read as much as you can if you have the time apart from your daily routine. Read complete books of the Bible continuously if possible. That way you get the whole picture in one sitting. Cross-question yourself with the "Why", "When", "How", "Where" questions. These will help you to gain more understanding. If you don't get the answer immediately, persevere until you get the answer by asking others or by studying other devotional books or Bible study aids.
If you want to stop at a single verse and ponder about it for a long time. Do that. This is all a part of Bible study and meditation.
God will never scold us if we ask for wisdom (in understanding the Bible). He gives liberally to all if we ask Him according to the following verse :-
James:1:5:
If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
There are 2 kinds of wisdom. Earthly Sensual Wisdom and Heavenly Spiritual Wisdom (Wisdom from Above) as mentioned in the following verses :-
James:3:15:
This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish.
James:3:17:
But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.
So, pls ask the Lord to give you the Spiritual Wisdom from Above which is pure, peaceable and gentle.
No human being has ever understood the complete Bible in a few days or few months. It takes some years to get a good understanding of the Bible which includes our life situations also. God will also use our life-situations to speak to us thru the Bible and make us understand the Bible.
Also, we must be willing to change our life according to what we read in the Bible. The individual who radically changes himself/herself as God speaks to him/her thru the Bible will also be able to learn and understand the deeper things of the Bible sooner. We MUST apply the truths of the Bible in our day-to-day life as the Word of God speaks to us. As the saying goes "
The Spirit of God uses the Word of God to change the People of God."
Hope this helps in anyway.
May the Lord Bless you with incredible Bible understanding over a period of time!
