Um Well Ya

[NeoTheOne]

Me and my budy where walking in the mall after we came from a movie and when we walked in they were by the phone next to the door 2 girls from youth, i like one of them we turned around and said hey , the one i liked was like smiling and like stuned looking like she did not know what to say, all she could say was *hey* *ya* and she asked if i was going to the church drama thing tonight.

after that we where we both said like *um ya*:o like 3 times lol like we where both stumped as to what to say, she has flirted with me before like holding on my shirt or looking in my eyes , do you think she likes me or what ?

 

[BMan29]

ya she could most of the time girls are shy or stuned when they see a guy they like i guess lol

 

[JPPT1974]

Well if you are not shy, you may want to ask. Because sometimes asking doesn't hurt and you just want to out of curiousity.

 

[lawtonfogle]

Neo, you definitly need to find someone older at your church to talk to about this. You can not get a face to face talking to on here, and also, you can talk to people who know the girl better than you.

And you can do what I did, pray to God for him to show you the answer to your question. If you have faith He might. He did for me(part way, He wants me to do part of it my self, which He also told me but in fewer words).

 

[Spicy McHaggis]

well, umm, like, errr, umm, derr, askherout.

 

[WITNESS8]

Hmmm....definitely digging you (the girl)

 

[chanis]

ask her out and find out...

 

[london boy]

you'll never know until you ask

 

[wildthing]

ahhhh hmmmmm like ask her out ok.

 

[winglovesall]

Sorry I can't help.

Even though I have helped you a lot - the fact is - that I don't have much experience - I don't even have a girlfriend and never had one.

I have never touched one.

 

[Breetai]

Stop asking such silly questions and just go for it. If she denies you, then go for her friend.

 

[winglovesall]

Wow! Breetai - that's early for you in Korea - 4: 33am you sent this post!

 

[Tumbleweed64]

I would say she likes you

 

[Breetai]

Wow! Breetai - that's early for you in Korea - 4: 33am you sent this post!

My usual bedtime is about 4am. I start work at 2:30pm every weekday, so I don't wake up until at least the crack of noon.

 

[winglovesall]

But NeotheOne - can you answer these questions -
Why does it matter to you so much whether or not she likes you?
How will it affect you if she doesn't want to be your girlfriend?

Thanks - be patient about relationships formations

 

[paulewog]

If she denies you, then go for her friend.
Go for being her friend, or pursue her friend as a girlfriend?

If the former, I think one should be a friend to your girlfriend before she is your girlfriend.

 

[JPPT1974]

Get to know each other as friends first and then take it one step at a time. Don't rush into things!

 

[Breetai]

If she denies you, then go for her friend.
Go for being her friend, or pursue her friend as a girlfriend?

Dude, that's an awesome idea!

 

[the_man]

Stop asking such silly questions and just go for it. If she denies you, then go for her friend.

LOL

 

[JPPT1974]

Hey you don't want to be a womanizer now do you?