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Turn-ons!!!

Faith84

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For me, it has to be someone who loves me for me, someone I could confide in and talk to no matter how minute the topic is. Someone who has a love for Jesus Christ as much as I do. Someone that's not into himself and money (like my ex). As far as looks goes, I'm not shallow. I follow my heart and what the lord provides for me.
 
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dluvs2trvl

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  • A man who loves the Lord and strives to live his life ever day in a way that is honoring to the Lord (doesn't mean he is perfect or doesn't make mistakes but makes an effort to do the right thing...)
  • Intelligent
  • Great sense of humor
  • Cares about others and making a difference in the lives of those he loves and in his community
  • Tall (mmmm love those tall guys! :D)
  • Honest and trustworthy
I'm sure there are more but those are enough for now! :D
 
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Thomas1984

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Since the opposite topic did not go very well, I figure maybe I should give this one a try.



Guys that read the Word and apply it to their life.

Hopefully there won't be another drama-fest!:p

Turn-ons?

A woman who can cook!:yum: (Ladies, it's the key to our hearts.)

A quirky/intelligent sense of humour.

Likes to get close to me!;)
 
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She should love and have faith in Jesus.

She should not care about material things.

She should be attractive, but she doesn't have to work on being pretty all the time for me. Most attractive girls are hot without any makeup or doing their hair.

She should be peaceful, and not loud and hyper all the time.

She should have a Christian taste in media, and not force me to listen to secular trash when we're in the car.

She should enjoy staying at home and spending time with me and hanging out with relatives.

Her life's goal should be to bring as many people to Jesus as she can so our goals do not conflict.
 
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For me

You can sense this spirit of love and compassion around her. That she really does care about people. That her words are not cutting everyone down, but raising up.

A women I keep staring at...because she so beauty on the outside and the inside.

A women who prefers quality time together more than gifts (though gifts are fun!)

A woman who has a faith that challenges me, and moves me to go after the heart of Christ even more

A woman who wants to be chased, and will be hard to get. But it is not out of a super ego of herself, but out of wanting the man to prove their worth.

A women who passionate in love with God, and really gets into worship.

A women that is not into the dating games but is more serious about romance and love

A woman who can love, and feel comfortable around Special Ed/people with mental disabilities.

A woman would we set and listen to what I say...no matter how long it takes me.

A woman who is imperfect,, doesn't have it all together all time, who can be emotional times...aka Human... and accept that with having a Man -Nurse as a husband/boyfriend which will mean he's ok with her crying and the up and downs of her life.

-Anthony
 
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A woman who has a strong belief in God & goes to Church.
A woman with a good sense of humor & who likes to laugh.
A woman who is not afraid to be affectionate & smile.
A woman who has a desire to communicate with me.
A woman who looks forward to spending time with me & yet can take care of herself just fine.
 
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arunma

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Obviously I like women who love Jesus above all else, but on a Christian forum I'm guessing that goes without saying.

This will probably be the strangest one, but I like a woman who's good at physics. That's what I do with the majority of my day, so it would be cool to have someone else to talk to about what I do.
 
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CoachR64

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The "she must be a Christian" thing has been repeated over and over, and I agree. So I will add a couple of things beyond that.

Sarcasm: I like women that can be sassy and humorous. If she can make me laugh and keep me in my toes, that is a good thing. Not looking for a servant, looking for a girl that can dish it out and take it.

Skinny Ankles: This may seem funny to you, but I work in a profession with a lot of women. They all think it is their job to "fix me up" and they always ask me what I am looking for in a girl. I always say "skinny ankles." That usually draws weird looks and the question of "why?" Well, I am a coach and former college athlete. Skinny ankles on a girl means my kids will have a good chance of being fast if we ever get married and procreate. My retirement plan is to breed a bunch of professional athletes, so I am looking for good breeding stock. It may be somewhat of a joke, but you should see the looks on these ladies faces when I give them that tid bit of info.

Coach
 
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