TTC..after multiple loss

[diaz4jesus]

I will give just a short history of the situation. I got pg the VERY 1st time I had sex when I was 14yo. My son is 15 1/2 now and was 8 when I married DH. We ttc for 3 years with one loss prior to the birth of our now 4yo DS. We TTC for 3 years after his birth and finally became pregnant and had a MC. In the following 13 months we lost 4 more babies, the last MC was Feb 10th of this year. We stopped TTC since then. For the past 2-3 months I have been talking to DH about possibly TTC just one more time and finally last night he agreed. Now here is my dilemna, do I go to the fertility doc we saw before or just pray through and leave it in God's hands. I have done both and still lost the babies. I have been on meds to increase the chances of viability and that did not work either. I want to just pray and let God be God and know that He will do what His will is. My DH thinks I should go back and do the fertility thing to increase chances. Please give me some advice but more importantly keep us in prayer.

 

[ChristianMama84]

I may not have advice, but I can pray for y'all.

 

[felinity]

I'm very sorry for the heartbreak of your losses.

There are tests that doctors can do to try to diagnose why you've had several miscarriages over a relatively short period of time. Could you ask your fertility doctor to run them? If he isn't able to give you the answers you need, it might be time to try another doctor.

 

[Catholic Wife]

Praying for you.

It might be a good idea to see if the doctors can find the reason that you miscarry if you have insurance that will cover it and/or you can afford it. If they can't find a reason, then just keep praying and leave things in God's hands.

 

[Assisi]

I saw over on the pregnancy board that you conceived and were cramping and spotting. Any update?

Praying for you

 

[diaz4jesus]

I saw over on the pregnancy board that you conceived and were cramping and spotting. Any update?

Praying for you

turned out to be an ectopic. i posted the whole story on the pregnancy board.

 

[Assisi]

 

[KristiKaty]

I will be praying for you.

In the meantime, pray for guidance. I'm under the belief that God gave us the medical advances that we have today and that He intends for us to use them... And whether or not you actually are able to conceive, when, how many babies, etc. are all things that are in His hands.