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Trying to reconcile relation with exwife. Ive been failing and treating her abusively emotionally. Shes seeking comfort in exboyfriend. even received jewelery from him. Am I wrong to be upset over this because how I treat her? is this normal/acceptable behavior.

You are in my prayers. God doesn't approve of these behaviors and He will forgive you if you repent. May God send the Holy Spirit to you and draw you to Jesus.
 
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My thought is you are reaping what you sow. If your personality came across to hear as loving and kind in a ways that she really enjoyed your presence then she would be with you, Since you said your emotionally abusive she is going to go some where else. Which is what I'd expect her to do.
 
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My thought is you are reaping what you sow. If your personality came across to hear as loving and kind in a ways that she really enjoyed your presence then she would be with you, Since you said your emotionally abusive she is going to go some where else. Which is what I'd expect her to do.
thank you,, it makes sense, sometimes you have to hear it from someone else to get it to click
 
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