trying to get throught the day

[pammie54]

I am having such a bad day. I hate falling apart when something breaks around the house and I don't have a clue what to do. It really effects what little self esteem you build up by trying to make it. The pool has a leak somewhere and no one can take a look at it before a week which means it will green by then and more problems. Some days it's all I can do to breathe.

 

[JeanR]

I make settlement on the townhouse in 3 weeks. Everyone just assumes that I am excited and thrilled about moving on. Moving is just being practical. My house is very old and in need of constant repair. The townhouse is newer, and I pay a monthly fee for the grass being cut and the snow shoveled.

It's hard leaving a home where you had your babies and where your husband died. You just can't walk out of a home of 28 years and be "happpy".

November 15th is the day I make settlement and the 16th I move. I have not made any decisions about my house now, but I can't hold on to 2 homes. I just can't afford it.

 

[IBLuke226]

I am having such a bad day. I hate falling apart when something breaks around the house and I don't have a clue what to do. It really effects what little self esteem you build up by trying to make it. The pool has a leak somewhere and no one can take a look at it before a week which means it will green by then and more problems. Some days it's all I can do to breathe.

Some days all you need to do is breathe,
When that is all you are able to do.

Take one day at a time, one problem at a time.

 

[TogetherForever]

I am having such a bad day. I hate falling apart when something breaks around the house and I don't have a clue what to do. It really effects what little self esteem you build up by trying to make it. The pool has a leak somewhere and no one can take a look at it before a week which means it will green by then and more problems. Some days it's all I can do to breathe.

I know exactly how you feel. It's been 2 years since my husband died and I still get so upset when something in the house breaks down. I'm learning that I just have to wait for some things to get done.