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Trouble with Landlord

Jim123

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Hi everyone. I'm not sure if this is the best place to post this(if it isn't just let me know). First I am a Christian. I definitely believe in God(through my own personal experience). So I do have Faith that ultimately things will turn out for the best..It's just that in the meantime I happen to be struggling with, well, my landlord's daughter actually. My landlords have gone to Florida for the winter and left their daughter in charge(which they do every year). I consistently find her(the daughter) extremely stressful to deal with. Last year she would come to collect rent without giving any notice whatsoever that she was coming. So I told her, "no one told me you were coming." To which she responded, "Oh I didn't realize my parents told everyone the exact minute they were coming each time!" Which they don't actually, but they live right down the street so I just stroll down there and give it to them before the 1st of the month. And so I have started doing that with this woman as well now(even though it is considerably further to travel). So the problem this year is that, I think, she likes to crack the door open to my trailer and peek in. I check the door every night to make sure that it's closed good and locked before I go to bed. Well last month on the day before Halloween, I went by it and it was cracked open! Like not fully closed. Now it's possible that I just forgot to check it the night before(although I doubt it). This also would happen last year during the time that the real landlords were away. NEVER happens when they're home. So I don't think it's a coincidence.

So as I see it I have two choices. Keep my mouth shut and let her keep invading my privacy in this way, or ask her to stop doing it. Unfortunately I'm fairly sure that if I mention it to her at all then it's going to be another argument and probably even a battle. My past experience with her is that when it comes to tenants, she's always right and never gives one inch. So I honestly don't know what to do here. Any helpful advice would be greatly appreciated.