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I recommend your local Church, also Churches in other places (anywhere across the world) if you could travel. If you can't find locally then i think it is better to travel, if you could, instead of going online for finding a wife.
 
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You have to keep looking. I met my wife on Tinder, and she is (and was) a Christian - neither of us were on the app just to meet people to hookup with.
 
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How can I find a Christian Girl or Tinder ? What similar apps do you recommend ? Of course I want a relationship who is leading to the marriage
There are some Christian dating apps that you can pay for. I know one of my good friends, he met his wife on a free Christian site. I'm not entirely sure which one it was, though. I'll ask him! :)
 
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Normally, I would say no, not if you want someone wholesome.

But there aren't a ton of 21 year olds on services like ChristianMingle or eHarmony, because those are relatively expensive.

I think it's possible to find someone on Tinder, you'll just have to do a lot more filtering.
 
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How can I find a Christian Girl or Tinder ? What similar apps do you recommend ? Of course I want a relationship who is leading to the marriage
Definitely state your preferences in your profile. That’ll weed out a lot of people on Tinder or any of those dating websites.
 
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How can I find a Christian Girl or Tinder ? What similar apps do you recommend ? Of course I want a relationship who is leading to the marriage
I do not recommend Tinder. Too many people are looking for hook-ups.
 
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How can I find a Christian Girl or Tinder ? What similar apps do you recommend ? Of course I want a relationship who is leading to the marriage
I was on Tinder from 2014 to about 2020, in that time I only met one girl that I actually dated. All the others were just one-time dates (not hookups) but I never connected with any of them and felt like pursuing it further. Like @RileyG and @TheRealAriel said, Tinder is focused on sex and hook ups, whether the designers admit it or not.

As far as secular apps go, I've heard good things about Plenty of Fish and Match.com, I know married couples who met through each of those. If your a Christian, Christian Mingle and EHarmony are going to be better bets. If you're specifically a Catholic Christian like me, you'll want to check out Catholic Match, I met my wife on there back in 2020. It wasn't instant success, I had been off and on the site for about three years, but I met her and we got married almost two years later.
 
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I would get involved in a church. Surely you have family and/or buddies who attend you can attend w/? Or invite someone you can be accountability partners w/?
If God wants you to date & marry, it’ll happen that way.
Not saying Christians can’t get married off Tinder, but be open to you are not ready & God wants you to do it a different way.
Tinder is self-centered & 'now now now'
 
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How can I find a Christian Girl or Tinder ? What similar apps do you recommend ? Of course I want a relationship who is leading to the marriage
i heard eharmony is pretty good for Christians I tried it for a bit and there were some people with similar values for sure.
 
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