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Time to let go

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I was having an issue with my boyfriend's step mom. I feel like she was getting me away from God by dampering my Faith, trying to stop me from talking about God, and influencing me in negative situations. I'm now seeing through God possibly that it is time to let go and let God. I need to allow space and time between us and spend more time with God. It hurts that it has to be this way for now, I Pray and Hope for the best in the both of us, also for Hope and Peace between us both. [emoji169][emoji120]

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Don't let it get you to down,just because someone does not believe in Jesus Christ. They are part of the majority at this point in time. The reality is that demonic forces are working through her,because she is not a believer. Maintain your faith in Jesus Christ above all else. God Bless you.
When you say let go,do you mean of the relationship? Pray always and never lose hope.
 
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Well I have a lot of different friends who don't Believe in God, but the issue isn't entirely with her unbelief, but what she is doing with it. She gets upset when someone mentions God or has a conversation about God that she is able to hear, she doesn't have to be in a conversation to try to stop it. She is a very controlling person. After awhile of her being this way around me I started to become afraid. I'm so bold when it comes to talking about God to others in a Loving and positive way, but after that I started experiencing anxiety when it came to talking about God which has never happened to me before. Recently God has given me to ability to talk about Him with His Boldness again, Praise God! [emoji169][emoji119] As for letting go, I'm just seeing that maybe being friends with her isn't a good idea, because of the negative influence she has had on me and there are times at random that she will try to get into arguments with me for no reason. It really hasn't seemed like a healthy friendship, I cannot be myself around her. I will still be seeing her though, being kind to her when I do. I feel like I need to Love her with a Christ-like Love from a distance. I feel like this could be for the best so, that we don't end up hurting each other's feelings in the future by just not being able to get along, I will definitely keep on Praying about her. [emoji169][emoji120]

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