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Holy Compunction can carry a few different inflections … many times it is associated with guilt, which is contrary to the Word of God…. so I don’t really know how to respond to that.Spiritual loneliness seems to be a growing thing. Part of me wonders if this spiritual loneliness is not so much about being alone per se'. So much as it is about being closer to our heavenly friend our Christ. Perhaps this compunction is to draw us closer to to His Spirit/Ruach. Are there any older Christians who can teach me about Holy compunction? And spiritual loneliness?
I must be in the middle of a denominational difference. All throughout my life there was an understanding that one could regularly feel a compunction by way of the Holy Spirit, that you were not doing all that you could or should to be closer to God.I had to look up compunction, it's basically guilt felt when doing something bad.
Guilt as an emotion is seated in anxiety. Since anxiety is the opposite of faith, not sure if it should be called Holy.
We don’t have to do anything to be closer to God. Jesus accomplished that for us - we have been made righteous, 2 Corinthians 5:24.I must be in the middle of a denominational difference. All throughout my life there was an understanding that one could regularly feel a compunction by way of the Holy Spirit, that you were not doing all that you could or should to be closer to God.
Is there no conviction by the Spirit to stop you and move you back? I can think of a few small examples in which the Israelites felt a Holy compunction. Or even Peter when he denied Jesus thrice. These are the words forms I am referring to.
Thank you for teaching me.
I think guilt is a powerful force, but it's of the flesh. The Israelites, not born again by the Holy Spirit. Peter, not yet born again by the Holy Spirit when he denied thrice.I must be in the middle of a denominational difference. All throughout my life there was an understanding that one could regularly feel a compunction by way of the Holy Spirit, that you were not doing all that you could or should to be closer to God.
Is there no conviction by the Spirit to stop you and move you back? I can think of a few small examples in which the Israelites felt a Holy compunction. Or even Peter when he denied Jesus thrice. These are the words forms I am referring to.
Thank you for teaching me.
We are " set apart" and made Holy through Him. Loneliness is of the flesh and we know the flesh fights against the Spirit. Walk in His Holy Spirit daily and above all, do not doubt. He has made His Home in you. This is His promise, the Comforter.Spiritual loneliness seems to be a growing thing. Part of me wonders if this spiritual loneliness is not so much about being alone per se'. So much as it is about being closer to our heavenly friend our Christ. Perhaps this compunction is to draw us closer to to His Spirit/Ruach. Are there any older Christians who can teach me about Holy compunction? And spiritual loneliness?
Yes.I must be in the middle of a denominational difference.
I have tried to talk to people in person about God. But I am really terrible with in person conversations. I can't seem to track what it is that God is speaking to me. So after years of trying I have found a type of solice just not talking but acting. So I help where I can but seldom talk. Not sure what to do about my ineptitudes.
Spiritual loneliness seems to be a growing thing.
Thanks for your insights, I appreciate you!Though we are one in Christ, we do not all have the same spiritual gifts. And we do not all have the same spiritual temperaments.
It wasn't until I learned about spiritual temperaments that I began to understand my difficulties in some areas ...
and to appreciate my strengths in other areas.
Fr. Conrad Hock wrote a classic book entitled "The Four Temperaments and The Spiritual Life" (1934).
In it, he explains well the differences in temperaments. Here is a link to it, if interested:
I share this because, as a Christian, I tried for many years to be who I was not, instead of who God made me to be. It wasn't until I learned about spiritual temperaments that I learned why I could not change mine, and that God did not intend for it to change.
... Different temperaments are better at doing different things, and there are many different things to be done in the Body of Christ!
The writing you shared in the opening post is beautiful, deep, rich. (I 'get it'.)
I also very much 'get' the desire to grow 'closer' to Christ ...
The opening post is something that a person with a melancholic temperament, or melancholic mixed temperament, might write and/or appreciate. Thanks for sharing it.
God bless
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