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Today I was shopping and saw a number of woman whom I felt attracted to. The enemy wasted no time in making me feel hurt & rejected and saying ahhh your past it now mate, no hope for you. But then I remembered how faithful God is and how Sarah must have felt when she young woman bearing children while her poor body grew older and without hope (humanly). How every cry of a child must have cut the maternal part of her in half. Longing and aching and wondering why me Lord why me? Why have you forgotten me, for so long? But Just God so REJOICED her heart with a dear son, so to will he do with us who feel, hurt. Hurt sometimes when we see a couple arm in arm not jealous just hurt and may be we groan within and wonder why God? why? Why have you given me such longing desires and not met them? But God is faithful, this cant be denied. When we feel all hope is gone, because we are either older or unattractive in our eyes, or a bit bulky, this is when the God Almighty of the impossible begins to do the impossible and meet His childrens deepest hearts desires. If He can meet Sarahs need and Hannahs need and longing and Elizebeths need of children, how much more will He have pity on His children like you and me.Take heart, He is Good and gracious, dont be robbed by the enemy of this fact. Bless you john
 

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fieldy said:
why do you always write these kind of threads?

Hey there, why do I write these kind of threads?
Well 1st it is one of ministries to be an encourager. I have had so little in my life or so few people who have emailed me or said words that have so lifted me up. I want that to stop with me, so that I will never be a discourager. 2nd I feel inspired and moved, to write these posts and by Gods grace and He be glory alone He has blest some dear folks with the few words I do say. 3rd. Ive suffered a lot in my life in waiting for a spouse and have learnt valubale lessons that you younger folks can avoid because Ive been there, and know a BETTER to live while you wait.. Take care John
 
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