This is very strange

[redcorvette]

Help, I am so confused about girls!

OK, I was hanging with my friends yesturday downtown (about 20 of us, at a popular restaurant with an arcade / activities / rock music and such.)

Pretty much the only reason I went was because the girl I like was going to be there, and I wanted to talk to her.

So Last week I was talking to her online, and she said she was madly in love with me, and then about a month before that she had her friend tell me, and then there was like a month where I never talked to her- she was too shy. So I got her screenname, and I talked to her for a while about stuff, and then she wrote a long paragraph, pressed enter, then signed off so she wouuldn't have to respond (she said I'm in love with you, I can't stop thinking about you, etc.)

So yesturday, she was at the restaurant, and she was sitting at the other end of the table, and she was looking at me when I wasn't looking at her, but when I looked, she looked away, etc.

so i went and talked to her, and I got all tougne tied, and I asked her if she got an email I sent her, and she responded "what email? my account has expired..." and she kind of acted like i was creeping her out, and she was said, "OK, whatever.... you're a weirdo... you really creep me out alot, i have no clue what your talking about... she seemed nervous (then i asked her about the IM we had... and she said "well that must have not been me... someone was acting as me...." well, I TALKED TO HER ABOUT INSIDE THINGS ON THE INSTANT MESSANGER!!! ***??? plus, that IS her screenname!!!

she was playing stupid.... and then she said "go away... seriously... you creep me out." right after she was staring at me the whole time.

What's the deal here?

 

[Disciple_Of_God19]

dude, let me tell you something right off the bat. Girls do strange things for many different reasons. Sometimes they have no reasons at all but do it anyway. As far as this conflict is going, I have a reason to believe that she seemed somewhat embarassed (spell check) and confused. If you were just getting all the information about how she felt about you from her friend, well, her friend may have been pulling a prank on you. Don't suspect her if that if it didn't happen that way. Let me tell you a quick story. I thought that a girl liked me once, and her two friends told me that and said that she was too shy and embarrased to tell me. So I started advancing and trying to get to know her and see if she really DID like me. Turns out all I did was creep her out too, until I told her that I was only trying to see if she liked me because her friends had told me so. Then she turned bright red and got upset because she had no feelings for me in that way what-so-ever and that her friends must've said that just so they could pull my leg. If you feel that this has happened to you then I'd advice you to leave the girl alone and let her come to you to talk and be your friend. Don't even worry about getting close to her unless she wants to be. Also, here's a very famous quote you might consider following, "Actions speak louder than words." If you stick to that quote, you'll see how people really are because words mean diddly-sqaut if they aren't enforced by actions. For now, just sorta shy away from the girl but continue to be friendly to her. Until you figure out what she really thinks of you as, don't advance her in any way.

 

[redcorvette]

no... it was her on the IM.... she was saying stuff that only I know....plus i know her email, and I did a IM directory search, and it was her's

so i don't know...

 

[Disciple_Of_God19]

well, maybe someone WAS on it while she was over there or something. Dude, girls are very strange like that. I honestly don't wish to know what kinds of things she was saying, but if she's just gonna act that way around you then you may wanna start focusing on someone else or just nobody at all.

 

[MrDude]

You've got 2 possible scenarios

A. That was indeed her that said those things, at which point you want to run away as far as possible. Don't play her stupid games.

B. It was someone playing a joke on you using her screenname. At which point you want to run away as far as possible. Don't play their stupid games.

 

[red_head_4ever]

I don't know if I could give a very accurate girl's oppinion on this, but I think that if it WAS the girl and not a pranking friend who typed you, the she's really wacked! I'd just saty away from her, cause if it was her typing you and everything and then acting that way, then even if she had meant whatever she had typed, you don't want a part of it. And I don't know about her and her friends, but my friends would never do that to me and I'd never do that to anyone. If her friends did it, they're not very good people

 

[MagicStar723]

I think she was embarrassed.... being around younger girls (even though I myself am still young)
They do weird stuff to avoid embarassment such as throw it off on the other person, which it seems she was trying to embarass you by saying you were weird when in reality she was just embarassed about her on feelings and whatever she told you in the IM.

 

[PetraFan007]

unbelievable. wow. this makes me mad even though it never happened to me. makes me wanna smack something. ha.

 

[lingjanet]

no... it was her on the IM.... she was saying stuff that only I know....plus i know her email, and I did a IM directory search, and it was her's

so i don't know...

i could be is her just she is too shy to admit..it will happen to me when i did somethings but i just doesn't want to admit that it is me who doing that because i am shy to tell him and i sometime it will be vey embrassing....

 

[Saviot'Valuan]

I'd say leave her alone anyway, whether or not it was her. She disrespected you in front of her friends, so unless she asks for forgiveness, just keep away. Or at least make no advancements.