I guess this is as good a place as any.
Now then. Prove to me that the claim is erroneous.
I'm sure that's quite impossible. I can ask you to trust that I'm telling you what I believe, in the same way I trust that you are truthful in expressing your beliefs.
Let me take the claims separately:
it's not the method that unbelievers have issue with, it's the message.
In fact, the way I approach this is to first examine the method. How do Christians receive the message that defines their way of life? I have learned from
another thread that this comes unequivocally from the Bible, from absolute faith in God, and through study and prayer. All three of these components are required; without one, the system would fail. (This is no condemnation, only an observation.) I have deep concerns about this method because of my view that important decisions should be based on reason, on logical analysis of verifiable, empirical evidence. And I find (as I believe most atheists do) that absolute faith in God, and acceptance of the Bible as His word, are not compatible with the system for defining truth that I value.
They don't try to disprove it because they believe it's not true, but because they're afraid it is true.
I admit this makes no sense to me. If it were true that a loving God is watching over us, concerned with our everyday lives, wanting us to succeed and be good, that would be perfectly lovely. Fear is not a part of this. I am not here to prove to you that your beliefs are wrong, though if you were interested in a debate on this, we might have a reasonably interesting and lively debate. But if you were to invite me to take a crack at it, my strategy would be to try to convince you that logic and reason and evidence are important. Then I would try to reach agreement with you on what those words mean. Then I would try to show you that belief in the supernatural requires suspension of those values.
And it wouldn't work, any more than it would work for you to try to convince me to abandon logic, reason and evidence (and what those words mean to me). But I wouldn't be working from fear, I'd be working from a standpoint that my method for striving at truth is more likely to produce a result consistent with the universe we live in.