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<blockquote data-quote="bèlla" data-source="post: 76231518" data-attributes="member: 416395"><p>Acknowledging the role attraction plays in pairing is honest. We can pretend Christians behave differently but results say otherwise. If most dated biblically we’d have few singles. Everyone would find a partner. Including those whose physical, mental, or emotional challenges outweigh the norm.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Knowing something and accepting it isn’t the same. You’ll know there’s a problem long before middle age. But it isn’t addressed in Christian circles. No one tells you certain difficulties may lessen your appeal or suitors.</p><p></p><p>I was discussing relationships well before body positivity came into play. Women were complaining about male selectivity and their unwillingness to have a partner who wasn’t thin. The majority were Caucasian. They resented his preferences while exercising their own. I called out their hypocrisy.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I think the majority have their head in the sand. I’ve been in the singles forum since I came. I have never witnessed the dearth of relational experience or activity I’ve encountered here. I’ve never seen so many with little to no history with the opposite sex. That isn’t the norm. I’ve confirmed it with older people and recall my twenties.</p><p></p><p>A societal shift has occurred. People are being left behind. There isn’t a Christian response to middle aged singles, let alone those on the sidelines. Yes, some people need to confront their stumbling blocks. Believing everyone will turn a blind eye is naive. </p><p></p><p>If there’s no traction there’s a problem.</p><p>If no one ever says yes there’s a problem.</p><p>If you never reach first base there’s a problem.</p><p>If no one accepts your proposal there’s a problem.</p><p></p><p>That’s the truth. No feel good statements or fuzzy slogans. What are you going to do about it is a reasonable response. You can’t solve the problem until you face the music.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bèlla, post: 76231518, member: 416395"] Acknowledging the role attraction plays in pairing is honest. We can pretend Christians behave differently but results say otherwise. If most dated biblically we’d have few singles. Everyone would find a partner. Including those whose physical, mental, or emotional challenges outweigh the norm. Knowing something and accepting it isn’t the same. You’ll know there’s a problem long before middle age. But it isn’t addressed in Christian circles. No one tells you certain difficulties may lessen your appeal or suitors. I was discussing relationships well before body positivity came into play. Women were complaining about male selectivity and their unwillingness to have a partner who wasn’t thin. The majority were Caucasian. They resented his preferences while exercising their own. I called out their hypocrisy. I think the majority have their head in the sand. I’ve been in the singles forum since I came. I have never witnessed the dearth of relational experience or activity I’ve encountered here. I’ve never seen so many with little to no history with the opposite sex. That isn’t the norm. I’ve confirmed it with older people and recall my twenties. A societal shift has occurred. People are being left behind. There isn’t a Christian response to middle aged singles, let alone those on the sidelines. Yes, some people need to confront their stumbling blocks. Believing everyone will turn a blind eye is naive. If there’s no traction there’s a problem. If no one ever says yes there’s a problem. If you never reach first base there’s a problem. If no one accepts your proposal there’s a problem. That’s the truth. No feel good statements or fuzzy slogans. What are you going to do about it is a reasonable response. You can’t solve the problem until you face the music. [/QUOTE]
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