Uggg I'm just so mad, My husband and I once again got in a fight, (I know we fight alot) I just got through giveing my son a bath and he is sitting on the computer then I ask him to come and get seth so I don't drop him when picking him up out of the tub, he is like ok hunny just a min (No big deal) ok now its feeding time, I make Seths bottel, his food, and get him dressed, (Coby is on the computer) I have baby in one arm, bottel in one hand, and baby food in the other hand, I ask Coby will you pull his chair over here before I drop something Please, "Ok hunny just a min." (No biggy) waiting, waiting, Ok Coby I need his chair I'm about to drop him, he said "OK" at this point I'm starting to get angry. he pulls his chair over to me and walks back to the computer. I say (Sarcaticly) Oh thanks for the help. He says "What I do." I'm like "Ummm tell me how am I suppose to put him in the chair and put the food down at the same time" he says "Oh I'm sorry." (no biggy.) so then he desides to open the tray to his chair and I forgot to clean it out from lunch, he says "now Melissa, why can't you remeber to clean out his chair." (I'm flameing now.) Calmly I say "I'm sorry it slipt my mind." He said "You know if the lady from CPS comes over here and sees this we will get him takeing away." (I had PPD and CPS came over to check up to see how things where going long story.) I was like " hunny I'm so sorry I just have so much on my mind, it was a inacent mistake." He just started hollering at me, everytime I started to say something he would interruped me (major pet peve I hate being interrupted.) Then he threw in "My mother wouldn't have forgotten." At this time I was so fired up I didn't care what I said, so I said "Well excuse me I'm not your mother, I will never be you mother, if you want your mommy so bad pack up and go live with her." Oh did I touch a nerve lol. He was fired up. He goes "Melissa I don't ask much of you." [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]!! I said "Coby, I'm going back to school, keeping up this house, takeing care of you, trying to keep Seth happy, but when he is fussing and I don't know what is wrong cus he can't tell me and he falls and hit his head, and all this stuff I get stressed out too you know, my mind isn't always on this house, I just want a few mins to my self but do I get it NO why not, cus my poor husband wants to come home from work and sit at the computer, do I ever get a day off, NO Why? cus If I'm not in school then I"m studieing, if I"m not studieing I'm tending to the house, if I"m not doing that I'm listing to you tell me how I'm not like your mom, Thats right I'm not like your mom cus I'm not your mom, get use to it and get over it or go and live with her, oh and lets not forget I'm being mommy and daddy to Seth because your either working or on the computer trying to figure out the stupid poser program, if I knew it would have caused this much troubel I would have told you not to get it." Uggg I'm so mad I just want to crawl in a corner and cry, my son keeps wakeing up and I can't go to bed cus every time I go and lay down he wakes up. I have had only 3hrs of sleep and I have to go to school tonight, ugggg I'm thinking about just not going and calling my mom from well I don't know the office at our appartment if the mean lady who took it over will let me. I NEED A VACATION UGGGGGGGG