You're reading into things Hix.
Hix said:
Exodus 22:16 "And if a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife. If her father utterly refuse to give her unto him, he shall pay money according to the dowry of virgins."
Where are the instructions of this dowry? How much is it? It's not in the written Torah anywhere, because it's part of the oral law.
Deut 22:28-29
28 If a man find a lady who is a virgin, who is not pledged to be married, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;
29 then the man who lay with her shall give to the ladys father
fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife, because he has humbled her; he may not put her away all his days.
Deuteronomy 12:21 "If the place which the LORD thy G-d hath chosen to put his name there be too far from thee, then thou shalt kill of thy herd and of thy flock, which the LORD hath given thee, as I have commanded thee, and thou shalt eat in thy gates whatsoever thy soul lusteth after"
In this verse, we are told to slaughter animals as we had been commanded to do so. However, you don't find the instructions for kosher slaughter written anywhere.
He commanded to follow Biblical kosher. Nothing to do with how the animals are slaughtered. Read further on!:
Deuteronomy 12:21 and ONWARDS
21 If the place which Yahweh your God shall choose, to put his name there, be too far from you, then you shall kill of your herd and of your flock, which Yahweh has given you, as I have commanded you; and you may eat within your gates, after all the desire of your soul.
22 Even as the gazelle and as the hart is eaten, so you shall eat of it: the unclean and the clean may eat of it alike.
23 Only be sure that you dont eat the blood: for the blood is the life; and you shall not eat the life with the flesh.
24 You shall not eat it; you shall pour it out on the earth as water.
25 You shall not eat it; that it may go well with you, and with your children after you, when you shall do that which is right in the eyes of Yahweh.
26 Only your holy things which you have, and your vows, you shall take, and go to the place which Yahweh shall choose:
27 and you shall offer your burnt offerings, the flesh and the blood, on the altar of Yahweh your God; and the blood of your sacrifices shall be poured out on the altar of Yahweh your God; and you shall eat the flesh.
28 Observe and hear all these words which I command you, that it may go well with you, and with your children after you forever, when you do that which is good and right in the eyes of Yahweh your God.
There is no such thing as a "kosher slaughter" in Torah

The commands are listed right there in the same chapter. Don't eat the blood, can't be an unclean animal, etc. all defined within Torah.
Nehemiah 8:8 "So they read in the book in the law of G-d distinctly, and gave the sense, and caused them to understand the reading."
Ok this verse is significant, they read the book of the law and gave the SENCE, the Oral Torah is the sence which allows us to understand the reading
#1) The Hebrew LITTERALLY reads, "and gave
an interpretation," or "and gave
insight" (no definite article). I don't see
any mention of Mishnah or Gemara, anywhere.
#2) Notice how they SEPERATED (the word "distinctly") the interpretation from the Torah. This insight was not Torah.
#3)
If this were the Oral Torah, it's described as Ezra's interpretation. In other words it SURE as hell didn't come from Sinai.
This is a very tenuous argument, Hix.
Deuteronomy 6:4 "Hear, O Israel: The LORD our G-d [is] one LORD: And thou shalt love the LORD thy G-d with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates"
Verse eight above is the commandment of tefillin. Without the oral law, this verse is up to more speculation and interpretation than one could ever hope to wade through. Tefillin is called "phylacteries" in the Brit Hadasha an example of the Bible using law found in the Oral Torah. Verse nine is about the mezuzot that adorn the doorposts and gates of Jewish homes. The oral law teaches how the tefillin and mezuzot are made properly. Without the oral law, these verses would be hopelessly misinterpreted in a thousand different ways.
What's confusing here?
#1) Read how this is phrased: "And thou shalt
bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be
as frontlets between thine eyes."
We don't see the normal word for tying a knot here, but the word "to strengthen." So we're to strengthen his words upon our hands as a sign.
Our actions.
They will be
LIKE frontlets between your eyes. God never commanded Tefillin, yet this verse is verbatim in 4 of the 5 books of Torah (except Exodus 13:9 uses the term "memorial/in your memory" instead of "frontlets").
This entire verse, as I can see it, flows from the verse that comes at the beginning:
6 These words, which I command you this day, shall be on your heart;
Does this mean that we need to have surgery to implant them into our chest or brain? NO. We're to follow him in thought, and in deed.
#2) There is no archeological evidence to support Tefillin until thousands of years after Sinai.
#3) The forehead and hand is used figuratively throughout the Bible to indicate both
thought and
deed.
Revelation 14:9
9 Another angel, a third, followed them, saying with a great voice, If anyone worships the beast and his image, and receives a mark
on his forehead, or on his hand,
10 he also will drink of the wine of the wrath of God, which is prepared unmixed in the cup of his anger. He will be tormented with fire and sulfur in the presence of the holy angels, and in the presence of the Lamb.
Ezra 10:3 "Now therefore let us make a covenant with our G-d to put away all the wives, and such as are born of them, according to the counsel of my lord, and of those that tremble at the commandment of our G-d; and let it be done according to the law."
This is a breaking of a commandment mentioned in Dueteronomy, however the written Torah only mentions the putting away of the wife, it is the Oral Torah that mentions the children also. The two are inseperable, they work in harmony.
I don't see an Oral Torah at work here.
3 Now therefore let us make a covenant with our God to put away all the wives, and such as are born of them,
according to the counsel of my lord, and of those who tremble at the commandment of our God;
and let it be done according to the law.
There is a BIG separation here. The children being put away is at the counsel of Ezra, NOT God, NOT the Torah. The crowd wanted it to be done in accordance with the Torah as well, and this was brought up separately.
This is not helping your case.
Zechariah 8:19 "Thus saith the LORD of hosts; The fast of the fourth [month], and the fast of the fifth, and the fast of the seventh, and the fast of the tenth, shall be to the house of Judah joy and gladness, and cheerful feasts; therefore love the truth and peace."
Here we have four rabbinically ordained fasts that predate the Second Temple period. Any orthodox Jew will be able to tell you what these four fasts are, and what they commemorate. These are the Fast of Tammuz, Tisha B'Av, the Fast of Gedaliah, and the Fast of Tevet, respectively. The rabbinical authorities of the time ordained that the Jewish people fast on those days to commemorate these events. Now, where on earth did the rabbis get their authority? People who say that the rabbis made things up as they went along believe that they had no right to do so. However, this is essentially incorrect. Had the rabbis been overstepping their authority, one would certainly think that G-d Himself would not have approved of the fasts.
This COMPLETELY goes against what you're saying! God said that the four FASTS the Rabbim ordained were WRONG and turned them into FEASTS. God did NOT like their tradition because they were afflicting themselves, so what did he do? He picked them up, dusted them off and said, DON'T TO IT AGAIN.
Speaking of months, why doesn't the Jewish Calendar begin on the 1st of Abib as it was ordained as an ordinance forever?
AND the main one with regards to the Oral Torah:
Deuteronomy 17:8 "If there arise a matter too hard for thee in judgment, between blood and blood, between plea and plea, and between stroke and stroke, [being] matters of controversy within thy gates: then shalt thou arise, and get thee up into the place which the LORD thy G-d shall choose;And thou shalt come unto the priests the Levites, and unto the judge that shall be in those days, and enquire; and they shall shew thee the sentence of judgment: And thou shalt do according to the sentence, which they of that place which the LORD shall choose shall shew thee; and thou shalt observe to do according to all that they inform thee: According to the sentence of the law which they shall teach thee, and according to the judgment which they shall tell thee, thou shalt do: thou shalt not decline from the sentence which they shall shew thee, [to] the right hand, nor [to] the left. And the man that will do presumptuously, and will not hearken unto the priest that standeth to minister there before the LORD thy G-d, or unto the judge, even that man shall die: and thou shalt put away the evil from Israel. And all the people shall hear, and fear, and do no more presumptuously."
In Deuteronomy 30, the Lord tells us that the Torah is not in Heaven, but it is with us. He placed it in our hands. The judges were rabbis. The sages of two thousand years ago were of the same line of ordination. The Pharisees and the Sanhedrin weren't exceeding their authority. G-d had told them to legislate! Whatever direction that took the society in was therefore correct provided they didn't step outside existing law from Sinai. The people were bound by the Torah to follow their instructions, told not to deviate to the right or to the left.
They were to pass judgment based on the Law of Moses, not their own oral traditions. Their words could not supersede God's Torah. Again this does not help your case.
So, even if you think that the rabbis made it all up it's still binding because it's given authority by the Bible!
Shalom and G-d bless
~Hix~
I believe that you are misguided in this particular issue, and I have stated my reasons why.
Shlomo,
-Steve-o