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Guys, I'm going through a really hard time right now. Yesterday was the homecomig dance and my date never showed up to pick me up or even went to the dance. I was really looking forward to spending time with her, but now what do i do..... the next time i see her will be tomorrow at school, and I don't know what i'll do when I do see her. I'm halfway between lying and saying it is ok just so she thinks that I didn't get hurt, or telling her how much she hurt me..... I cried myself to sleep last night because I'm not being totally faithful.... I shouldn't have danced with anyone, but I did and I got really close to this other girl, and we had a great time.... was what I did the right thing, or did I do wrong(feeling really guilty right about now).......
 

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It is going to be ok. Look, I may be older but if your date did not show, wel then sweetie you were not obligated to her at that dance. Did she call? Do not feel guilty and I would tell her "look that was messed up and I do not deserve to be treated that way"
You are going through alot right now. Enjoy being young while you can. Before you know it you will be grown and married (maybe)
 
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