The lets get it out in the open thread!!!

[Hentenza]

Hi All,

The purpose of this thread is for people that have problems with another poster to come to a loving resolution. This thread is about love and finding solutions. Both parties should participate in an adult, rational, and loving manner. I expect all of the loving members of CC to help the ones in need.

The rules for this thread.
1. No Debate.
2. No spite reporting.
3. All CC and site wide rules apply.
4. No judgments.- we are here to help those in need.
5. No disclosure of confidential information.
6. No baseless accusations.
7. This thread is for CC members ONLY. Non-members posts will be deleted.
8. I reserve the right to close this thread if it deteriorates to a flame war since that would completely defeat the purpose of this thread.

Lets help each other get over the hump that we are in right now. Lets also help take away or at least lessen the animosity that some members have for another member. Remember, we are to edify Christ. Forgiveness and love are essential.

 

[GreenMunchkin]

Hen... am very, very worried about this thread, bro

Things are too fractured to make this work at the moment, I think

 

[Nadiine]

OH NO... GM, I'm on board with you on that one!

I'm still using your other 'fixing CC" thread for that stuff and taking it nice & slow.
:o

 

[Hentenza]

I am willing to give it a chance in the hopes that new communication channels are opened.

 

[GreenMunchkin]

Hen, please, please can we unapprove this? Just for a little while? In Debate and in Policy things are *crazy*. I don't think anyone's seen this thread yet, but when they do, all hell is gonna break loose

 

[Hentenza]

Guys,

If people don't talk to each other rationally, how is peace suppose to happen? Are we not capable of Christian adult conversation? Can we not help some folks heal their heart?

 

[FriendsFellowship]

Why don't you make this a no debate thread.

People should be able to come together and go forward without debate.

 

[Hentenza]

GM,

I will be monitoring this thread very carefully and will close it if it becomes a power keg.

 

[GreenMunchkin]

Dude, in a perfect world... but CC is chaos at the moment. Emotions are running about as high as they've ever been in here. There's very little adult conversation going on at the moment, and I *know* people will use this thread to bash one another

Please don't be mad, cos I completely understand why you created it, and it's so so lovely, but things here are bad, and this thread will get ugly fast

 

[Hentenza]

Good idea Marty. I will add the no debate clause to the OP.

 

[FriendsFellowship]

Munchie, I think this thread will be fine if there is no debate. Let's see what happens!

 

[GreenMunchkin]

k

Well, I've got your back, Hen

And praying this thread becomes very beautiful

 

[sageoffools]

AAARRRGGGHHH!!!!
I HATE EVERYONE!!!!!

Sorry, I was just kidding.
I just want to say, just because you disagree with someone doesn't mean that you have to hate them. Unfortunately there seems to be a lot of that going around here.
"If you don't agree with me 100% you must hate everything about me!"
Boy, if that were true, I think I'd hate everyone on the planet.
Can't we just disagree civilly!?!

 

[Hentenza]

k

Well, I've got your back, Hen

And praying this thread becomes very beautiful

Thank you GM.

I do feel that is necessary but I have been wrong before.

If you think that other rules should be added to this thread feel free to add them to the OP.

 

[FriendsFellowship]

AAARRRGGGHHH!!!!
I HATE EVERYONE!!!!!

Sorry, I was just kidding.
I just want to say, just because you disagree with someone doesn't mean that you have to hate them. Unfortunately there seems to be a lot of that going around here.
"If you don't agree with me 100% you must hate everything about me!"
Boy, if that were true, I think I'd hate everyone on the planet.
Can't we just disagree civilly!?!

Maybe we just need to agree to disagree!

I understand standing on biblical truth. But we have to remember that we are powerless to change other people's minds, that's the job of the Holy Spirit!

 

[Nadiine]

Maybe we just need to agree to disagree!

I understand standing on biblical truth. But we have to remember that we are powerless to change other people's minds, that's the job of the Holy Spirit!

that's the truth

 

[sevenwhiskers]

some of us who haven't been around all that long are still trying to figure out what the IT is that people want out in the open.

(not laughing at people's feelings here -- just at my own confuzzlement every time i try to make heads or tails out of things )

 

[Addicted2~Jesus]

Well I'm onboard, I've always preferred that if someones got a problem wit me, they come up to me an say "Hey I don't like this er that" it's called resolution. Sumthin I think we should all strive for, to resolve the issues that divide us. So I'm here, anyone got a problem they'd like to resolve wit me? hehe I'm a bit bent bout the T2BC ordeal, but couldn't say I'd be upset wit any one person at the moment, an I read his message so I think he's ok wit it at the moment as well, we'll let time figure that out as it were.

 

[Lisa0315]

Okay, I will start.

I am upset because people have said that Liberals were invading this forum and they weren't.

I am upset because BeMi's existence is so controverial here and no matter how many times it is explained, it feels like no one is listening.

I am upset because very good, decent, much better than me, kind of members have left at least for the short-term. Criada and Macrina for example.

I am upset because I miss the kind of fellowship we used to have and I do not understand what has happened to this place.

That's good for a start, I guess.

Lisa

 

[Nicki4Christ]

I would like to apologize to ALL the mods, LT, GM, Jim, Sophia, Edb, Hen, Karen and Lillamb. (I dont think I missed anyone )

I posted my feelings in a thread, and I feel It may of been taken wrong. I want you to know I think you all do a great Job, and when everything was going crazy, I know you all were putting out fire after fire. Please accept my apology if I caused you any hurt.

And if you don't know what I am apologizing for, just know that I read my post and from the responses it seemed, I was maybe taken wrong,

Sincerely Sorry,

Nicki