The last argument

[lovinjesus31]

I was wondering what was the last argument everyone has had with their spouse?Mine was just yesterday,but actually I can't say it was a real argument because I have learned to walk away from feeding the ememy in this marriage!
God Bless You!

 

[searle29678]

The last argument I had with my husband was about three weeks ago. I caught him smoking marijuana and looking at pornography in the laundry room after I went to bed. It turned into a real humdinger and God used it to bless me. I learned from that argument that all that stuff is from Satan and if I acknowledge it with anger instead of prayer, I'm giving the devil exactly what he wants--the end of my marriage!

 

[EmSchmem]

Over job stuff. He didn't like me telling him it was time to look for a better job. We are having a baby and it just won't work for our "breadwinner" to be making $8.49/hr.

 

[murron]

About 3 months ago. Over the only issue he and I ever have arguements over. But, based on a very rational (albeit brief) comment made yesterday by hubby - I know that is the last time we will ever argue of this issue.

 

[HeatherJay]

About 2 weeks ago. It was over a Snowman, lol. We got over it quickly, though.

 

[LiberatedChick]

We've never had a full on argument. We disagree with some things every now and then as everyone does but we talk things through and have never raised our voices.

 

[Conqueror12]

Three years ago.

I finally learned what my mother taught me as a child: "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." And God got my attention with some Scriptures:

Proverbs 17:1 Better a dry crust with peace and quiet than a house full of feasting with strife.

Proverbs 17:14 Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.

Proverbs 19:13 A quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping.

Proverbs 21:9 Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.

Proverbs 21:19 Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and ill-tempered wife.

Ephesians 4:31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.

2 Timothy 2:23-24 Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. And the Lord's servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone.

 

[Jenna]

I'm having a hard time really pinning down when we last had a legitimate argument. Now, that doesn't mean that we don't have times when we just do not see eye to eye.

 

[andiesmama]

We don't raise our voices, either, but that's not to say we never have arguments...but they are so few & far between, I can't remember specifically, but probably at some point during the holidays we argued about the scheduling of the "family events"...that would be my guess!!

 

[hygienemom]

yesterday about him spending lots of time on the computer!!!

 

[Oblivious]

We never really like go at each other and argue. We get along really well.

The last "disagreement" we've had was over something really stupid when we were on vacation in September. I think the whole disagreement lasted an hour.

 

[LynnMcG]

We don't really argue anymore. We have misunderstandings, like this weekend when my husband said something that REALLY hurt my feelings. But I was feeling a little sensitive and he absolutely didn't mean it the way I took it.

My husband and I share the same goals and values, so I think that makes a HUGE difference in our relationship - we're not fighting eachother to get to difference places. We both want the same things so we work together to get there.

I love him!

 

[IrishGrace]

I know it was probably about money, like using it irresponsibly, but as for when, I don't really remember... that's the only thing we really have "real" arguments over... we have small "cat fights" every once in awhile, especially around "that time of the month" for me... but nothing huge...

 

[sculpturegirl]

Well, we aren't married yet (9 months 3 days), but we don't really argue . That alone is surprising because I am generally very argumentative.