The Gallup Polls – Fake or Real? 54% of Americans support gay marriage? (moved)

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This idea of "doing no harm." Have you really thought this through as it pertains to SSM? It will have absolutely ZERO impact on society, or the raising of kids?

The rest of your answer I agree with completely, and thank you for your response.

Well, it's been legal in Denmark for a quarter of a century, and it doesn't seem to have destroyed their country like some pundits predict.

It's been legal in Massachusetts for 11 years, and they're doing fine.

It's been legal in my own state for 9 years, and I haven't noticed any mass anarchy, rioting in the street, pogroms of Christians, or any real difference at all for that matter.

Whether that's a fact or not, I'll admit I do not know.
I will say that I know not one black person who is against homosexuality. At least not any who would ever vote or make an official standing on it.

You ever hear of a little place called Uganda?
 
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It didn't need a legal definition because it was a cultural, self-evident fact that marriage is between a man and a woman.
That is why homosexuals weren't getting married before these definitions were put into writing.

They were put into writing to ensure that this acknowledged doctrine of marriage would remain and not be overrun by homosexuals.

You all act as if we attack homosexuals on marriage when really they are the one's intruding. They are the one's trying to force a change in what marriage has been proclaimed as being since classical Rome.

It's not an infringement on rights; we aren't persecuting them- you all are serving a radical campaign and expecting us to just give in.

Funny how the media doesn't tell it like that though.
 
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So let's accept your position, for the sake of argument. It's all about homosexuals wanting to change the definition of marriage. OK. So, why shouldn't we? What reason is there not to change the definition of secular marriage to allow homosexuals to take part?
 
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Because, because, gender roles! If we have two men or two women, how in heaven's name are we going to know who is who is supposed say "jump!" and who is supposed to say "how high?" It'll all be confusion and pigs with wings, I tell you!
 
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Because, because, gender roles! If we have two men or two women, how in heaven's name are we going to know who is who is supposed say "jump!" and who is supposed to say "how high?" It'll all be confusion and pigs with wings, I tell you!

I understand your frustration, but I'd like to see if Sky can actually come up with a genuine response, so let's give him a moment to respond before we start to snark.
 
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I understand your frustration, but I'd like to see if Sky can actually come up with a genuine response, so let's give him a moment to respond before we start to snark.

What, moi? Snark?

It's just not a marriage unless the woman is barefoot, pregnant, and quiet in the church kitchen. It's traditional.

(and I'll let other people speak for themselves, and I'll speak for me)
 
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What, moi? Snark?

It's just not a marriage unless the woman is barefoot, pregnant, and quiet in the church kitchen. It's traditional.

(and I'll let other people speak for themselves, and I'll speak for me)

Well, he is suddenly conspicuous by his absence...
 
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So... still waiting for that explanation of the actual specific negatives to society or children caused by allowing legal secular ssm.

Hope you brought a book, because you're gonna be waiting a LOOOOONG time!

-- A2SG, I'll cover for you if you need to make a quick trip to the library....
 
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The problem with that is nobody tells straight people that they have to choose someone of the opposite sex. They're naturally attracted to the opposite sex.

Gays are naturally attracted to members of their own sex. Yet, when a gay couple wants to get married, they're just told, "Sorry, you shouldn't be attracted to the person you're attracted to.... You can't get married like any other couple..... Oh! ....And you're gonna burn in hell. But we don't hate you..."


Why do you imply that having sex with your sister is morally wrong?
Did I imply it's wrong? Can you answer the questions in my hypothetical, please?

Perhaps committed was not the right word... But what you quoted wasn't directed at you and really, had nothing to do with commitment in relationships.


no this is not correct. those wanting change are under just as much if not more obligation to justify that change.
Justify my position?

14th Amendment All fifty states must recognize same-sex marriages that happen in states where it is allowed. It's only a matter of time until every state follows suit.

The definition of marriage is not set in stone. It can AND will change and what that means in the future, I don't know nor do I really care.

My personal gripe in this debate is that Christians don't get to dictate how our society works. No single group of like-minded individuals has that right.

Just like how Muslims don't get to tell our women how they should dress, and Jews don't get to outlaw all food that isn't kosher, Christians don't get to outlaw same-sex marriage.
If you don't approve of it, that's fine. Don't marry a gay man. Tell everyone you love not to be gay, but don't impose your religion's commandments on the rest of society through law. Another part of the constitution covers that as well.

And don't tell me this isn't a religious issue. This is almost entirely the work of the religion of love that has been so influential on western culture and even more on American culture.
 
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The media doesn't tell it that way because that is factually incorrect. You have this whole, "us and them" attitude about this that I find quite telling.

Do you think marriage belongs to you? Or rather, "us"?

In this country, the "them" are also part of society and also get to vote and decide on what the definition of marriage shall be.

Marriage isn't something that Christians have a patent on. You didn't invent the concept and it is open to revision as long as it's within reason.

The public seems to agree that it is within reason to expand the definition to include gay couples.
 
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Sorry but words mean things. Staying the same does not mean change, and vice versa. Elementary, my dear Watson. Plus, the only reason anybody ever campaigned to keep SSM illegal (which won by a landslide in most States btw) was because gays had already attempted to CHANGE the law. See that? Change. Not done by those against SSM.

What gives them the right to shove their practices down my throat, and that of my children? Keep it behind closed doors where it belongs.
 
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However, it will have an impact on society. Which is their whole point.
 
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This is a very silly and flimsy argument. This is not even 1 generation, let alone several. The magnitude of the experiment you're willing to start warrants more caution.
 
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This is a very silly and flimsy argument. This is not even 1 generation, let alone several. The magnitude of the experiment you're willing to start warrants more caution.

What do you expect to see after several generations? Since when is "several generations" of observational data necessary to implement social change?
 
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Pretty much this, yes. All the gays have to counter that is shaming anything in their path, and pity for their poor rights. When everyone is willing to give them their rights, just don't call it marriage.
 
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