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The "Friends List" Thread!

Inkachu

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OK, here it is :) Up, up, and away we go lol.

You know what to do! List everyone on your friends list, and say something kind about them or leave them an encouraging little message :) And if you're like me and it's been forever since you "cleaned" your list, and there are people you don't even remember talking to five years ago, it's OK to skip those :D

Apollo Celestio - I haven't seen you or talked to you in forever. Did you get lost in the Singles forum when I got banished after getting married? I have a feeling that's going to be the case with a lot of my old buddies. Anyway, I miss your posts, you're a strong, unique young man with a lot to offer the world.

*side note* Come to think of it, somebody might need to let the Singles area know about this thread, or some of our friends will never see our comments about them.

CrusaderKing - Probably the same thing, I've lost touch because I got married and got sent to the Hinterlands of CF lol. You're such an awesome dude!! Stay awesome :) I miss talking to you!

Dorkius Maximus - a new friend :D I don't know you very well at this point, but you seem like a sweet, kinda shy personality. And your avatar is so cute it makes me wanna barf :)

Ethnog - classic! You're a beautiful, gentle, ecclectic soul. The world is a nicer place with you in it.

Gym - oh, master of Russian coolness! I miss your hilarious jokes.

Henrietta - my Democratic twin :) We may not see eye to eye on politics, but we're definitely kindred spirits. You're a strong and mysterious soul.

Kevlite2020 - Ahhhh Kev... I wonder whatever became of you. How I miss the old days of our Spongebob jokes lol.

Macfall - anarchy!! Heh. I never know what's going to come out of your mouth next (or should I say, your fingers), but I respect your intellect and your passion.

Marycita - awwww, my lil Mary! I have no comment for you, just a floating cloud of little hearts popping like bubbles :)

Michael03101985 - Dude, where you been? You're smart and adorable and way too short on confidence in yourself. Have you figured out yet that you have the potential to be amazing?

Miles - you're SO my bro in spirit... you're thoughtful, intellectual, never hasty with your words, and you love CATS (and that makes you family) :)

Mrs. Luther 073082 - I have to stop myself constantly from using your name, and force myself to type out "Mrs. Luther..." ARGH! I've loved watching your life progress from your days of struggling with anxiety and other crud (just like I was) to then watching you losing weight, getting engaged and then married, getting your own house, getting Luther, and now getting ready for lil man! I love your pictures, stories, and friendly, common-sense approach to life. One of my favorite CFers of all time :)

penNpaper - Are you still around, Drew? You've always been such a sweetheart, and a friend to everyone <3

Revived - feisty yet compassionate, and one heck of a dad :) Stay awesome!

SteadyMyHeart - awww, my girl! How ARE you? What's new? I need a PM, young lady :hug: You are going to be SUCH an incredible woman, I pray your destiny arrives ASAP!

Sunryse - how are you, too? Another person I need a PM from :) You have the most amazing attitude and outlook on life. You take GREAT pictures and definitely have photography talent.

Tamara224 - are you still around?? The other areas of CF could really use your wisdom and brilliance. I miss reading you.

thankful in VT - Adorable, kind, yet understated. You and your hubby are possibly my favorite CF match ever!!!

Thunder Peel - So freakin' cute it's disgusting. I will never forget how you used to disparage yourself and your hopes of love, and now look at you :) God shut your mouth, boy lol. You're such an incredible guy, A. Your wife is soooo fortunate. Your combined Adorable Nerd Factor is just stellar. Enjoy life!!

Tink - where'd you go, woman?? How's life? UPDATE please! You're such an amazing woman of love and faith, you will always be an inspiration to me.

traingosorry - I never knew you as well as I'd like, but what I did know of you, was that you are amazingly beautiful, and your spirit matches your lovely outside :)

TravelerFarAwayFromHome - another newbie on my list. I don't know you very well yet, but I look forward to knowing more about you :)

VintageDon - oh, that guy ;) He ain't nobody, heh. He'll never read this anyway, so :p

white dove - I haven't seen you in forever.. not even sure you're here anymore. Man, my list is so full of old friends from yesteryear... it's sad lol. WD, you're a brave and beautiful soul! I hope all is well with you and your precious little one.
 

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(I'm only going to list people that I think are still at least somewhat active on CF. And I'm noticing that I'm not very good at compliments. Oh well.)

Apollo Celestio Cool guy. He's one person that I always enjoyed seeing in threads because he often said something rep-worthy.

Balugon I love that he's not afraid of being different. I know that being a nudist isn't easy in Christian circles, especially from the responses I see on here. I may not be a nudist myself, but I admire rejecting many Christian's and Western society's prudish nonsense and embracing the body for being natural and not shameful, as it should be.

Chrismael Great guy. Smart, funny, and I like that he's often the one (or one of few) spots of sanity in otherwise insane threads.

Ethnog Beautiful inside and out. She isn't someone of just empty words, but a genuinely good and caring person.

Inkachu Did you call me a Democrat?! Wash you mouth out with soap, young lady! :p I'm unaffiliated (you don't register with a party in my current or birth state) and would not register as a Democrat even if I had to register with a party. Democrats are corporate-owned and disgust me, too. Besides, they're too conservative for me and have a whole lot more in common with Republicans than most people give them credit for. Now that's out of the way :)D), you are an awesome woman. I am so happy to see you in a home that's all your's and away from nasty apartments, and even better, happily married.

Leothelioness A fun person that I miss and wish they would post in the Hangouts forum.

Little Tigress A fabulous woman who I would love to meet someday. She's one of my favorite people on CF and in general.

Mina A classy, classy, classy person. I honestly wonder why a classy woman like her would want to be friends with me, even after spending time with me (twice) in person. :D But I am so very glad that she does want to be my friend because she's a wonderful person and great to hang out with.

NoodlesNoodlesNoodles Quirky, funny, smart guy. He may not post much, but it's a joy when he does.

Oddish I have mostly stuck to people I've seen post in the last couple of months, but I'll make an exception for B. I miss seeing her around here and wonder how she's doing.

PinkSweetart I don't know her very well, one on one, but she seems like a sweet and fun person.

Puffca I never used to believe in soul mates before him. I liked the idea of them, but now I'm a believer. There is no one on Earth who could possibly be more perfect for me (and he says I for him). He's an amazing man and I constantly feel so blessed to have him as my husband, co-parent, and life partner. (He doesn't post anymore either, but I obviously had to make a mushy exception for him. :D)

Qyot27 Nice guy and makes brilliant posts.

RayofSun Don't know her well, but she seems like a fun person and someone who'd be great to get to know better.

Squeakers Another person that I don't know well personally, but seems like a sweet person and quirky in a quiet way, if that makes sense.

thankfulinVT A fellow Whovian and Donna fan. :thumbsup: And I feel like we are a little similar in that we both married CFers and moved away from home for it. We're part of a small but fabulous club. :D

WalksinChrist Don't know him well at all, but from the little I've seen of him in Marrieds, he seems like a good guy.

*Not sure why Mrs.Luther doesn't appear in my friends list, but I'll mention her anyways. She's great. I wish I had her guts to just say what needs to be said sometimes. I'd love to meet her (and Mr. Luther) some time in the future and have our sons play together. :)

Amber.ly Just noticed that she's not on my list. She's awesome and I'm thrilled that I may get to meet her soon.
 
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eh, I'm not doing everyone just people I think of kindly or remember. There are people on there I don't even remember. There are a few people from singles, but I got to know and have friendships with lots of people from CF during my time here.

2scoops- Awesome guy. I hear bits and pieces of updates from him as he's on my FB but is rarely on. He deserves lots of good things in life.

Adamantium- I always looked up to her; amazing lady. She went through some tough times and we lost touch. I hope she is doing well and that things are much better for her.

Border Dave- Cool guy; Lost touch with him too; but I hear he's doing amazing.

Bunnymedic- love her sense of humour. She got married to Weasel (they were like the first CF singles couple). She was very funny and just down to earth. I hope they are well.

Coach64- Hilarious; lost touch; but I believe he popped up here a while back and is married and happy I hope.

CrusaderKing- Down to earth guy; hope he's well

Deliciousbass- hilarious; I hope he's well; we've had our differences but I don't believe him to be a bad guy. I hope he's found peace. And I think he dodged a bullet with that one person; I used to think the other way around but not now.

DianaC- Amazing lady! I love her and see her in real life almost daily.

Dluvs- We are on FB and I enjoy hearing aobut all the blessings in her life. We knew each other back then.

Ethnog- truly a delight. I don't always know what she thinks about me; but I'm glad to know her and I think highly of her.

Evie1980- She looks like Kate Winslet and is a Godly lovely woman! I wish all the best for her in life!

Henrietta- I love that girl! I'm glad I got to meet her and her hubby! I admire her wisdom, intelligence, and mothering skills so much! I love to hear about her son. i think she has such a kind and balanced spirit.

ido- was Val. I miss her lots from here but see her on FB. I admire her so much for her wisdom, Godly counsil, and mothering skills as well. We almost met once, but it didn't work out. She's amazing and a half.

Irascible- from the golden days of CF. was a good friend then but we lost touch. We had our ups and downs but in the end I count him as a true friend. I hope he is well and happy.

joanna1- she rarely comes here but is on my FB. I wish good and happy things for her. I'm thankful for her prayers and I hope she knows that I pray for her as well.

kev- truly great; epic even. I'm glad he's happy and that all is well.

latteda- I see updates from her and I'm happy for her. She's one of the lovelies and most creative people to grace these forums.

led- from WAYYYY back when. I think he's one of the first people I met when I joined. always an encourager; completely lost touch, but he was there for me when it mattered and I hope he's happy and blessed. I never did believe all the crazy about him from that one person who proved themselves to be the truly crazy one. I'm sorry they talked smack about you. Their true colors were shown.

leothelioness- I always enjoyed hearing what she had to say. I hope she's well.

letssee- I hope she's okay. She's a truly lovely person.

littletigress- I admire her for her Godly stance on things and for her wisdom and fashion sense. She has a lot of common sense and I'm glad to call her my friend.

lunalinda- I miss her; I loved reading her posts. She's an amazing girl; I hope she's doing good.

Mrs. Luther- I remember her from way way back when. I'm happy to see all the blessings in her life. I admire her wisdom and calmness even when dealing with the crazies.

pointaletoile- I love that girl! She no longer comes here but I see her on FB and other places. We share a love of ballet and dance.

puffca- One of the nicest guys ever on CF. I'm glad he found happiness with another wonderful CFer! When I heard they were together it made me so happy and I literally squealed!

Rebekka- I haven't heard from her in a while. I hope she is well. She is truly one of the kindest and gentlest souls I've known.

Revived- A great encourager.

sampa- I hope all is well for her; I still pray for her. She's beautiful and amazing; she deserves nothing but happiness.

septemberskies- great girl! She is level headed and beautiful; she also deserves nothing but happiness.

simmeringabsolute- he was always fun to talk to; I hope he is doing well.

snoochface- I love her!!! She's one of the most kind, wise, intelligent women I know! I got to know her in the Lost forum here and in the childfree section. I'm glad I see her on FB and other forums!

Spicy- The most hilarious person to ever come to CF. He was one of the first people I met here also. I'm glad to see his life explode with wonderful things. When I see homer simpson I think of him.

songz77- great guy; so happy for him! He is a faithful encourager!

tartanarmy- Amazing and I'm glad to still be in contact with her. She and spicy are incredible people and I'm happy to see of their many blessings!

tink- I love her so! I'm happy that so many things are coming together for her! I admire her honesty and the love she has for others.

traingosorry- The most creative person ever. I love her! Over the years I've learned so much about grace and loving others from just watching her.

Xini- fashionista! I love this girl! I would love to meet her! I admire her for being levelheaded, loving God, and her fabulous sense of style.

Numbers- Truly, I count him as one of my most favorite people at CF. He no longer comes here and things got weird between us and that was probably my fault b/c I don't know how to handle things. But, he's an amazing person and I hope that he's blessed and happy beyond measure. He deserves nothing but happiness and goodness in his life.
 
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I think I suck at these... :sorry:

Soulwings - I used to know her from the anxiety forums. We are still friends on facebook. She has been married for quite some time now and seems to be doing well. :clap:

mina - Mina is one of the sweetest, classiest people I know of! I had several people from CF singles I used to pray for in finding a spouse because I thought they were all such wonderful people and Mina was one of them. I was so happy to see her get married and settling in to her new life!

little_tigress - Also sweet and classy! Love seeing posts on CF and pics of your travels and CF meetups on CF and FB. :)

HoosierCanuck - I knew her from Singles. I don't think she posts on CF anymore, but I have her on facebook. She has been in a relationship for a long time now and appears to have been doing really well. Her facebook posts always crack me up.

traingosorry - I don't see her on here anymore, either, but I have her on facebook as well. Yet another person who is sweet and classy :)

sweetlambofgod - Yet another person from Singles that I don't see on CF anymore, but have on facebook. She is fun to interact with and I like seeing her updates.

songz777 - Another person I prayed would find a spouse that did find one :clap: I don't see him on here much anymore but I am so happy for him!

~Beauty_from_Pain~ - Haven't seen her on CF in a long while and wonder how she is. :confused:

Amin - Haven't seen him, either - hope he is doing well. :prayer:

trinitygrace - She doesn't post anymore, but I have her on facebook, too. They are expecting their second child and doing well. :)

Judy02 - I have her on facebook and see her post in another forum I go to occasionally. I miss her posting at CF!

deliciousBass - He was a fun guy. I haven't seen him on in a long time and hope he is alright.

sampa - Another sweet and classy person I knew from the singles forum. I still see her post from time to time, but it would be better if she posted in LSHO more often :p

dluvs2trvl - Another person I prayed for who is now married. I love seeing her updates on facebook and miss her on CF!

HannahBanana - Haven't seen her in forever - hope she's well.

SteadyMyHeart - She is active on CF, but needs to post in LSHO!!! I like seeing her updates on facebook, though.

Luther073082 - Oh, just the love of my life and father of my child.

justaGUYnamedROB - He doesn't post anymore that I know of, but he and Molly appear to be doing well from the facebook updates :) I always thought it was neat that they met around the same time we did and got married around the same time we did, too (possibly even on the same day, I think?)

Tink - Haven't seen much from her anywhere - hope all is well :prayer:

penNpaper - He doesn't post anymore, but we keep in touch on facebook. He got married last year and his wife is from CF, too. They are a sweet couple.

Inkachu - So glad to see you married and happy, too :clap: And I am glad you still post. I love your sense of humor and the way you sometimes just tell people how it is, lol.

*ThankfulinVT - I enjoy your posts! I was excited to see you and Austin got married :clap:

*Henrietta - Why are you not on my list?! :confused: I love your posts, too, and am happy for you and your husband (and your little one). You seem like you are a really great mother and I have been paying lots of attention to anything you post regarding parenting and taking mental notes to self :)
 
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I don't know if these people are on my list or not but I will still do it!

Henrietta- Persistent. I think you are one of the few people I have known who has gone through some really hard times and then bounced back with such grace. I am happy with the life you have now and I hope your blessings continue.

Mina- Faithful. I see the love and compassion you have for your family (yours and your husbands). I love how much time you give them, I love how you learn so much from you MIL, and how you open your heart and mind to so much of how others are around you.

Thankful- Loving. I see the compassion you give to others here. You listen to them, pray for them, and show support. I have yet to see you pass by someone who is hurting and not stop and give them some kind of love or hope to get them through.

Little Tigress- Mindful. I appreciate being around people who understand others without quick judgement. You teach me to slow down and see why people do what they do and help clear my heart and mind. I also learn how wonderful it is to take things out and let it go. You teach me a lot. And I see Gods work through you so much!

Mrs. L- Strength. Though I do not talk to you, I do read a lot of your posts. And I have also seen the strength you have from all that you went through in the last couple of years that I have been here. I see how loving and supportive you are of your husband. I enjoy seeing couples so loving toward each other and its so refreshing to read that and know that marriage (though hard work) can be wonderful.

Inkachu- spontaneous. I remember reading a lot of your posts about your past experiences and I realized how much it has given you more strength and courage then I can ever possibly have. It is admirable to see someone push through, love God, and give so fully to her family.

Beautyforlashes- Creative. You are one of the very few people I have met to go through so much physical pain and be so calm about it when expressing what you go through. Your silence has really opened my eyes to other peoples pain. Now I think twice and learn what is wrong and what is happening to others. Thank you for teaching me to be mindful and patient with people.

r035198x- dedicated. To the Lord and to his family. I hope that you will meet a beautiful woman who will love and take care of you greatly. Even though you don't show it to many and you hide things with humor, I can see how dedicated you are to people, to helping them, and for being a servant of God in all ways.

Amber.ly- Fighter. Amber is a go getter. Whatever she has in her mind and heart, she works hard to get what she knowns she can do, greatly. I admire her strength, but I also admire her ability to see past things and go with the flow.
 
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I think I suck at these... :sorry:

...penNpaper - He doesn't post anymore, but we keep in touch on facebook. He got married last year and his wife is from CF, too. They are a sweet couple...

...Inkachu - So glad to see you married and happy, too :clap: And I am glad you still post. I love your sense of humor and the way you sometimes just tell people how it is, lol.

Thanks!

And no, you don't suck at this, you don't suck at anything :)

And WHO did Drew marry?? Someone from CF? I'm dying to know! Rep, PM, something??

Inkachu- spontaneous. I remember reading a lot of your posts about your past experiences and I realized how much it has given you more strength and courage then I can ever possibly have. It is admirable to see someone push through, love God, and give so fully to her family.

Awww, thank you :D
 
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For some reason I don't think I saw this. Sorry :sorry: You probably can - he's on there.

I don't know how to find him (all I ever knew was his first name lol). Oh well.
 
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