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Just a hunch, but I think sometimes musicians spend time with their craft that spouses think would be better spent with them. I know one instance where a country musician always put his career first and wife second. I always said she ended up playing second fiddle to a pedal steel guitar.
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I am confused how at how you would get that from that fact that I wanted my husband to be with me. Please don't lump all people into one category. It is called stereotyping.
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It's still him playing second fiddle to a flute as I perceive.
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To be honest - and I'm sorry this isn't what you want to hear - I think framing it in terms of "supporting you" is probably not helping you.
People should go to church because they want to worship God and contribute to the community. Expecting your spouse to bypass those two things and be there to support you kind of misses the point of church.
If you're not feeling supported by him, in life in general, that's something you need to talk about and work towards. But if it's just church, I personally would leave him to come or not come, not make it about supporting or pleasing you. (Says me, and my husband and I belong to different churches; so take that for what it's worth).
People should go to church because they want to worship God and contribute to the community. Expecting your spouse to bypass those two things and be there to support you kind of misses the point of church.
If you're not feeling supported by him, in life in general, that's something you need to talk about and work towards. But if it's just church, I personally would leave him to come or not come, not make it about supporting or pleasing you. (Says me, and my husband and I belong to different churches; so take that for what it's worth).
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