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MyangelDems

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Okay a while ago i posted about problems i was having in my marriage with my hubby not stepping to the plate and being what i thought was a "man". Well things got to the point where I ended up packing and spending a few nights in a hotel. Odd thing was it was the hubby that told me to go and not the other way around. i don't think I've ever seen him so upset, he walked out and he told me to get out and i was tired of arguing and fighting so i just got some of my immediate things and made arrangements to leave the next morning to take the bus to a hotel closer to my job so i could still make it to work and not miss out on pay. I truly thought this was the end of my marriage, and since I know my husband is the man God has for me I didn't understand things at all.

Now I don't know what happened between the time he left and when he returned home hours and hours later that night, but what returned home was not the man I've seen over the past few months. But what I got was the man God promised me long ago. We talked, and finally we managed to fix the problem that seemed so unfixable only hours before. Hours before he just didnt get it, but by the time he came home God must have made sure he got it because we were on the same wavelength and I felt like I finally had an equal I could talk to and communicate with and God is truly good!!! :clap:  Its so odd, im still broke, facing Ch.7 bk and I'm truly more happy than I've been in the past year right now. So thank all of you guys for all of your suggestions and comments about what I should do,they truly helped me.
 

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Today at 05:53 PM MyangelDems said this in Post #1

Okay a while ago i posted about problems i was having in my marriage with my hubby not stepping to the plate and being what i thought was a "man". Well things got to the point where I ended up packing and preparing to spend a few nights in a hotel. Odd thing was it was the hubby that told me to go and not the other way around. i don't think I've ever seen him so upset, he walked out and he told me to get out and i was tired of arguing and fighting so i just got some of my immediate things and made arrangements to leave the next morning to take the bus to a hotel closer to my job so i could still make it to work and not miss out on pay. I truly thought this was the end of my marriage, and since I know my husband is the man God has for me I didn't understand things at all.

Now I don't know what happened between the time he left and when he returned home hours and hours later that night, but what returned home was not the man I've seen over the past few months. But what I got was the man God promised me long ago. We talked, and finally we managed to fix the problem that seemed so unfixable only hours before. Hours before he just didnt get it, but by the time he came home God must have made sure he got it because we were on the same wavelength and I felt like I finally had an equal I could talk to and communicate with and God is truly good!!! :clap:  Its so odd, im still broke, facing Ch.7 bk and I'm truly more happy than I've been in the past year right now. So thank all of you guys for all of your suggestions and comments about what I should do,they truly helped me.
 
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