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Hello.

I've been feeling tempted on and off for about a week. My husband struggles with an addiction, and he had a slip on Sunday that was quite bad, and it's really impacting on me emotionally. I just keep trying to ride the feeling out until i get distracted again.

I don't want to be a victim of this for the rest of my life. I want God's best and i want to strive for new and better levels of healing.
 

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I'm glad you have that motivation, that's great. There's probably a list of distractions around here, i find that it really helps me to keep busy when i feel triggered.
Are you getting any help for your self injury? I recommend you do, because it's so hard to beat on your own and with therapy you can really tackle the root of the problem. I think, anyway.
Can you call someone to sit with you, or go out somewhere you like and feel safe with a friend? A park, a cinema, whatever.
xx
 
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I'm sorry you're struggling. I'm sort of in the same boat...my husband also struggles with an addiction and has recently fallen a few times. I know I can't possibly feel the same as you, but I think I have an idea where you're coming from. If you ever want to talk, feel free to PM me. I'll be praying for you.
 
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