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Telling the Truth about Prop 8

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Beanieboy

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sjLxRaAFuQM

Here is a little lesson for everyone. Prop 8 does not discriminate. To discriminate, it would have to target a specific group. For example the law would have to state, that HOMOSEXUALS cannot marry members of the same sex. But the law does not, it states that plainly, marriage is between a man and a woman, regardless of sexual orientation. Hence, no discrimination. STRAIGHT people cannot marry same sex either weather they WANT to or not. Just because you want it, doesn't make it discriminatory.

This quote comes from a poster from the Hollywood protest on Prop 8.

What is interesting is that the poster, as I have heard others here say, is that Prop 8 does not discriminate, because it would have to target a specific group.

It doesn't, because it simply states that marriage is only between one man and one woman.

However, it is deceitful to say that it then does not affect a specific group, namely, gay couples. In voting Yes, it threaten to "unmarry" gay couples that are legally married. In stating that marriage only includes one man and one woman, it excludes people of the same sex.

If I said, "A voter is defined as a white man or white woman", and claim that it isn't targeting nonwhite people, but rather, simply defining voter, and has no words against anyone, I am not being truthful. It saying what something is, one is implying what it is not, and that targets a specific group.

The poster further says that "marriage is between a man and a woman, regardless of their sex." According to the poster, who seems to think marriage is sacred, whether the couple is gay or straight does not matter at all to him, as long as they are opposite sex.

The last false logic is to say that no straight couple can marry someone of the same sex either. Straight people wouldn't want to. That's like making Hinduism the one and only language people are allowed to worship. When you say, "that's not fair," I say, "Look, I'm Hindu, but I have the same rights as you. I can't be a Christian either (even though I never would be.)" As a Christian, you would see it as unfair. As a Hindu, because it doesn't affect me personally, I could claim that I am under the same constraints, but I grant myself the religion that I want to worship, while not granting it to you, and then claiming that we are equally oppressed. It's simply not true, and is obvious to the person whose rights are violated.


It claims that the same limitations are on heterosexuals, who can marry whether it's Yes or No on Prop 8, while homosexuals are prevented from marrying, if voted Yes.

Why, in arguing this issue, is there so much lying and deceit, and clearly false logic?

If this is truly a moral issue, why the need for deceit?

Why the need to claim that churches may be forced to perform gay marriages, when they aren't forced to perform them for atheists, or even church members that they clergy cannot in good conscious marry (even heterosexual ones.)?

Why is simply saying that gay marriage exists, or that gay people exists, is the same as condoning it, promoting it, or pushing an agenda?

Why is it that what parents want is their kids to be ignorant of the truth, that gay people exist, that they can marry (at least in Canada), that there is such a thing as orientation? Why would someone want to, instead, promote ignorance? Why would someone want to promote intolerance of those who are different? Why would someone oppose Gay Tolerance, knowing that gay students are often on the receiving end of violence toward them, stemming from being raised by heterosexual parents who instill those values?
 
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Here is a little lesson for everyone. Prop 8 does not discriminate. To discriminate, it would have to target a specific group. For example the law would have to state, that HOMOSEXUALS cannot marry members of the same sex. But the law does not, it states that plainly, marriage is between a man and a woman, regardless of sexual orientation. Hence, no discrimination. STRAIGHT people cannot marry same sex either weather they WANT to or not. Just because you want it, doesn't make it discriminatory.
So, would they agree that, if I made a proposition that said that marriage is between a man and a man, or a woman and a women, regardless of sexual orientation, it would not be discriminatory? :doh:
 
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So, would they agree that, if I made a proposition that said that marriage is between a man and a man, or a woman and a women, regardless of sexual orientation, it would not be discriminatory?

These Yes on Prop 8 people want homosexuality out of the schools. No Pink traingles and Rainbows calling their children to gay indoctrination.

That is the issue. The legitimizing of gay sex and the quest to get their children promoting it is what they are fighting.

Just listen to them speak about the issue.
 
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These Yes on Prop 8 people want homosexuality out of the schools. No Pink traingles and Rainbows calling their children to gay indoctrination.

That is the issue. The legitimizing of gay sex and the quest to get their children promoting it is what they are fighting.

Just listen to them speak about the issue.

Do they want to pretend that it doesn't exist?

And what of gay students? Do you want to ban them from coming to school as well?
 
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These Yes on Prop 8 people want homosexuality out of the schools. No Pink traingles and Rainbows calling their children to gay indoctrination.

That is the issue. The legitimizing of gay sex and the quest to get their children promoting it is what they are fighting.

Just listen to them speak about the issue.

Prop 8 does not change anything about what kids are or not taught and the only thing that is taught is non discrimination based on sex, gender, race or sexual orientation, which all people should be taught. And in CA a parent can remove their child from any discussion about those things.
 
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Why, in arguing this issue, is there so much lying and deceit, and clearly false logic?

They have so say something (no matter how illogical or retarded it sounds) to make themselves feel better, otherwise they'd be sick at how disgusting they truely are.
 
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I guess an ammendment saying everyone had to marry within their race doesn't discriminate. After all it does not name any one race. It is the same for everyone, right?

Oops, should have read further down I would have seen someone already presented my comment. Of course when states had laws against "interracial" marriage they often specified exactly who could not marry who. But they never said any individual group couldn't get married.
 
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