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No one has confessed that they do not want God to exist for purely selfish reasons, but it can be inferred from the reasons they give.

Ah, I knew your "thanks for your honesty" schtick was a cover for your forked-tongue.

And nothing selfish about believing in a god who holds your hand through this life and gives you eternal life at the end of it, not at all.
 
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Wrong. The matter for me is one of integrity. This may not be a word you're familiar with, because you usually act with a complete lack of it.

I would rather go to hell than worship God because as you have described him, GOD IS NOT GREAT. And such things don't merit worship.

If you equate acting according to one's integrity with selfishness, well, that might explain a lot of your behaviour....
 
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If memory serves they didn´t say that in regards to "the greatest conceivable being" that you asked us to base the discussion on but in regards to your personal god concept.

Well, quite! A god that throws a hissy fit and sends people off to eternal hellfire because he was disagreed with scarcely matches the conception of "greatest"*.




*(Not that arguments like Anselm's Ontological and Aquinas' "no effect 'greater' than its cause" - that rely on this notion of "greatness" - are compelling, of course. It's entirely subjective, and at best is equivocation).
 
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If God exists, that would mean that He made us and all that there is. It would mean that He is the source of all that is Good and Right. It would mean that He, by very definition is the Highest Good and therefore when He created us with the capacity of choosing to love Good and do righteousness, that if we fail to do so, it is because we chose not to do good and love righteousness.

Take yourself down off of the pedestal you are one and understand this one thing...

If God exists, you owe Him your very life, for your life is a gift from Him. If God exists, you did not cause yourself to be born but He did.

If God exists, then that means that YES, there is One greater than you who will hold you accountable. I know this may be a bitter pill to swallow, and an arrow that flies into the heart of your sense of autonomy, but if God exists, then you owe Him all.

At any rate, I say that I wouldn't worship God as you describe on the basis that his attributes and plans are morally indefensible. I see almost nothing worthy in him that commands worship.

I would not honor God if I perceived Him the way you did either. Your perception of God is severely, tragically warped and twisted my friend. Why is that?

God is to you and wants to be to all, the be and all and end all of existence. He insists on being the purpose and the objective for everyone and historically is the originator. You could not get more self-glorified, frankly.

This is where the issue lies. You want to reserve the right to do as you please, come and go as you please, act as you please, think as you please, live as you please, but when it comes to God, you somehow think Him wrong for reserving for Himself that which is necessarily due Him, that is, honor and glory.

You do not mind glorifying yourself, and letting others lift you up, but when it comes to God, you think Him evil for wanting the same?

How do you rationalize that my friend?


What is humility to you, exactly?

True humility is seeing oneself rightly. True humility is realizing that you are nothing without the One who made you, that you can do nothing, say nothing, think nothing, feel nothing, unless the One who gave you breath enables you and gives you the very strength to do so.

True humility is seen displayed in the lives of women and men like Mother Teresa and William Carey, Hudson Taylor, Corrie Ten Boom....

Men and women who denied their own rights and placed others always before themselves. Who placed the needs of others before their own needs. Who always thought of others before they thought of themselves. The people that spend their time giving, not expecting anything in return, going two miles when compelled to go one, giving the shirt off their back to make another warm, the roof over their head to another who has none.

True humility is seen in Christ, who allowed Himself to be nailed to a cross for a crime He did not commit, and while being hung high, prayed for the ones executing Him, while bleeding to death He gave assurance and hope to that hopeless criminal who was crucified beside Him. Assurance that he would be with Him that day in paradise.

True humility and the greatest mystery of the universe is that God would humble Himself in the way He did just to show us how much He loved us.

I pray for you my friend, that you do not allow yourself to be blinded any further, but to understand how much God loves you. YOU.

This is not about anyone else. This is about YOU.

God can only do what is best, what is greatest. The greatest way He could demonstrate His love for YOU, is by allowing you to have your freedom and at the same time dying to show you how much He wants you to freely love Him.

This is Christianity. This is what I live and die for.
 
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The arrogance of being thick as a brick - YouTube
 
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So despite knowing this you conflated the two on purpose in your post?

Yes, it is Crais. Although from the 3rd season, in which he is far more likeable.

Ah, I knew your "thanks for your honesty" schtick was a cover for your forked-tongue.

And nothing selfish about believing in a god who holds your hand through this life and gives you eternal life at the end of it, not at all.


I will refer all of you to post #146.

In that post, I have explained why God is worthy of honor, worship and glory, and why you so desperately need Him, just as I and everyone else needs Him.

If you all cannot see Christ on the Cross, lifted up for the sins and transgressions of the human race because He loved us so much, then nothing, and I do mean nothing that I say, nothing that I present to you, nothing that I demonstrate to you will make you see the light of the glorious gospel of Christ.

If any of you have an issue, it is not with me, but with Christ, for it is of Him that I speak, and it is Him that I point you to and magnify in the presence of all that are here.

If I magnify myself, my testimony is nothing. No greater love has a man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.
 
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When all else fails, you preach. That is what you are doing here now.

If I magnify myself, my testimony is nothing. No greater love has a man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.

You weren't magnifying yourself when you claimed to have personal knowledge of the origins of everything in existence? You weren't exalting yourself by boasting of that knowledge?
 
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If God exists, that would mean that He made us and all that there is.
Yes, if he is as described.

It would mean that He is the source of all that is Good and Right.
Only in the sense that he enabled people to choose what is good and right.

It would mean that He, by very definition is the Highest Good and therefore when He created us with the capacity of choosing to love Good and do righteousness, that if we fail to do so, it is because we chose not to do good and love righteousness.
This is unargued for. Even if God is the "Highest Good" it would not follow that him holding that title or attributes mean that it is the "Highest Good" to worship him. The very concept of a "Highest Good" in this context invites morality to become arbitrary in application at any rate.

Take yourself down off of the pedestal you are one and understand this one thing...
What pedestal am I on, exactly?

If God exists, you owe Him your very life, for your life is a gift from Him. If God exists, you did not cause yourself to be born but He did.
No, God caused humanity to be. My parents cause me to be. Humanity owes its origins to God but I as a individual, do not (only indirectly).

If God exists, then that means that YES, there is One greater than you who will hold you accountable.
I don't have a problem with being held accountable. I have a problem with God holding people accountable for merely thinking a certain way or for being born a specific way. I have a problem with God creating us or allowing us to be born imperfect and then condemning us to eternal damnation for it with the only opt-out being holding absolute faith in a questionable doctrine that has the byproduct of condemning not just atheists but all other theists.

I know this may be a bitter pill to swallow, and an arrow that flies into the heart of your sense of autonomy, but if God exists, then you owe Him all.
Don't presume to speak for me. You talk of my supposed selfishness and yet talk about my opposition as if it is to do with how God would treat me. It is not. Even if God promised just me a place in heaven with no conditions God would still be unjust on the basis of his complete condemnation of others and I would still be morally inclined to reject his offer.

I would not honor God if I perceived Him the way you did either. Your perception of God is severely, tragically warped and twisted my friend. Why is that?
You do understand the basis of a loaded question, right? My "perception" of God is a perception of how you describe God. It is a mirror of your description. Unfortunately you are loaded with bias in favour of the God you describe and have a distorted understanding of morality and thus cannot see the glaring out in the open moral problems with a God that condemns most of the human race to eternal torment.

You describe God as if he is Stannis Baratheon. Although Stannis is the Mannis, he's hardly worthy of serious worship.

To reply seriously though: I do think I should be able to do as I please, live as I please, act as I please, think as I please and live as I please so long as my actions do not prevent others from doing the same. This is less about just abject hedonism and more about personal liberty. Do you have an issue with this?

You do not mind glorifying yourself, and letting others lift you up, but when it comes to God, you think Him evil for wanting the same?
I do not command others to worship me. I do not threaten them with punishment for not doing so. I do not ask others to praise me, to love me.

The comparison you're making is dreadful.

How do you rationalize that my friend?
Your accusation is simply a strawman.

Yet all of this is undermined by what God has in plan for those who don't recognise him. A being that would do that is monstrous, not righteous.

I do not wish to be eternally bound in advance of my life to a human sacrifice that I would have been duty-bound morally to prevent. We look upon those that would die for their convictions or show immense grace in the face of great suffering inflicted upon them with immense praise but when they can be prevented: they should.

True humility and the greatest mystery of the universe is that God would humble Himself in the way He did just to show us how much He loved us.
And true depravity is executed in that he would condemn all those who do not reciprocate or who reciprocate poorly to eternal damnation.

This is not about anyone else. This is about YOU.
I insist on making it about others. You talk about my selfishness then try to narrow the scope of the conversation to me. What about Muslims who live a life of selflessness and obedience towards God only to discover that God has permanent torment ready for them just because they concluded incorrectly about God?

God can only do what is best, what is greatest. The greatest way He could demonstrate His love for YOU, is by allowing you to have your freedom and at the same time dying to show you how much He wants you to freely love Him.
Where will my freedom be in the afterlife?
 
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Nope. God may well exist and may well have created me. That does not give him the right to administer eternal punishment because of a disagreement.

I would not honor God if I perceived Him the way you did either. Your perception of God is severely, tragically warped and twisted my friend. Why is that?

Because no-one claiming his behaviour is good can justify their claim?


No, we do not think we should be able to do as we please. Stop smearing.

We think that where a massive imbalance of power exists, the one with the greater power has a responsibility to act justly, not throw people into hell because his ego wasn't massaged enough.


Again, you are smearing. Atheists are capable of this as well, and do not need to self-efface in the way you describe in order to do so.


Christianity is about smearing people?

Again, if Christianity is what you embody, then I do not want it.
 
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Stop evading responsibility for YOUR OWN WORDS, Eliarnai.

You have said that me and others are being selfish, want to do our own thing, and implied that we cannot place others before ourselves without acknowledging Christ.

Those are YOUR WORDS, Eliarnai. And again, if being a Christian means thinking you can just forego responsibility for the crap you speak and pass the buck onto God (indeed, buck-passing seems de rigeur for the deity you worship), then I want NOTHING TO DO WITH IT.

You have pulled this stunt repeatedly the ENTIRE time you have been a poster here, which is almost a year now, and you are still as insulting to atheists as you were when you arrived. It is a shame that in all that time you haven't actually learned. Rather you self-aggrandise with your last bible quote, while accusing us of putting ourselves on pedestals.

And if Christ really is speaking through you, then he is as clueless as you are.
 
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Where will my freedom be in the afterlife?

Your freedom is found in your capacity to make a choice.

Choose life, or choose death.

There is no third option.

Choosing life means you recognize you have fallen short of the glory of God and deserve life without God. It means you look at Christ on the cross and accept His atonement for your sins and receive Him as Lord and Savior.

Choosing death means you reject the offer of salvation and when you die you will be judged for the way you lived your life. Since you cannot meet God's righteous standard of Holiness, you will be sent to the place where you want to be, apart from God.
 
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Born imperfect by virtue of a hereditary sin committed ages before one is born by human beings created without any concept of right and wrong and then cursed by their creator for disobeying a command that assumed they possessed some concept of right and wrong. Genesis depicts an incompetent creator.
 
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As if Genesis was the only book in the bible.

God has made a way for you to be whole and made well.

Christ is The Way, The Truth, and The Life.
 
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Your freedom is found in your capacity to make a choice.
Belief is not a choice.

Muslims believe they have made the choice you have, by the way. You obviously reject that and believe them to be condemned. The idea that there is just a choice is trivially refuted just by a cursory glance of other religions that promise similar rewards as Christianity does.

Choose life, or choose death.
I choose life, yet not as God would approve of. That he would condemn me to death is not a choice, it is a consequence he imposes upon those who do not follow.

Choosing life means you recognize you have fallen short of the glory of God and deserve life without God. It means you look at Christ on the cross and accept His atonement for your sins and receive Him as Lord and Savior.
No, it does not.

God's "righteous standard of Holiness" is plainly absurd and by design established to condemn people. The punishment is also not befitting of any crime committed.

Also: Do Muslims choose death?
 
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As if Genesis was the only book in the bible.

God has made a way for you to be whole and made well.

Christ is The Way, The Truth, and The Life.
You're not answering the objections people have.

How is it ethical for God to punish people for sinning when he imposed upon them at birth the predisposition towards sin?
 
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Ok, so why are you still talking with me then?

Why are you here on a Christian forum?

Are you trying to convince me that I am wrong about Christ?

Are you trying to convince me that I am unfair in saying you need a Savior?

I assure you my friend, if you do not know me by now, and what my convictions are, you have not been paying attention.

I can understand you are angry. People were angry just like you are now when Christ told them that unless they believed in Him, they would die in their sins.

These are not my words, but God's.
 
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