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Stopping Abortion

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There is no law that can stop it. People will go to states or countries that allow it.
To those can not afford that will go to back alley butchers like they used to.

Instead lets teach birth control, the pill, condoms. My mom and dad told there kids the facts of life but they did not act foolishly and think there teenage children were gonna listen to them or the pastor. So they also taught birth control. They made sure the kids had all the tools to protect themselves.

I found out last night that my friends daughter is giving birth in two weeks and they found out the the child is severally mentally handicapped a good portion of his brain did not form, and has spina biffida. That child is going to have a very short life of pure misery and agony. If they had know in time her daughter would had an abortion.

You pro lifers do not want an abortion for medical reasons, fine how many of you are going to pay for the care of such of child. If your not gonna step up...shut it!

You do not want a rape victim to have an abortion so how many of you are going to care of here medical bills and provide counseling and take that child in. If your not gonna step up...shut it!

Stopping abortion works with education, hormone filled teenagers ignore there pastors and parents all the time, they have been the beginning of time. Educate your kids...don't just give them bible because many teenagers do not pay attention. They think with there hormones'.

And understand there legitimist reasons for one. I do not know any woman who has actually had abortion for willy nilly reason.
 
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My best friend’s mother sat her down and explained in detail how not to get pregnant while having sex when she was 15 . That was back in the late 60s . I was shocked at first and then fervently wished my mother was like that and had the sense to be realistic instead of a having a screaming hissy fit every time my period was late (which was almost every month because I was very underweight- no body fat= no period). I had boys but they did get the birth control lecture
 
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There is no law that can stop it. People will go to states or countries that allow it.
To those can not afford that will go to back alley butchers like they used to.

Instead lets teach birth control, the pill, condoms.

Change a few words there, and the same argument could be made about murdering an adult...or a dozen other terrible crimes.

So what is the answer? Why is decriminalizing most of the capital crimes not part of your analysis??
 
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There is no law that can stop it. People will go to states or countries that allow it. To those can not afford that will go to back alley butchers like they used to.

The coat hanger is a lie: Why the 'back-alley abortion' argument fails

"t was always "5,000 to 10,000 deaths a year." I confess that I knew the figures were totally false, and I suppose the others did too if they stopped to think of it. But in the "morality" of our revolution, it was a useful figure, widely accepted, so why go out of our way to correct it with honest statistics? The overriding concern was to get the laws eliminated, and anything within reason that had to be done was permissible."
 
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I’m old enough to remember those back alley abortions . Let’s not bring those back please. Desperate women will do them . There is also the issue of some pregnancies being life threatening and the woman wants to end that toxic pregnancy, I think her wishes should be paramount .
 
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birth control, the pill, condoms.
A major cause of abortions. Their failure rate is so high that any faith placed in them is tenuous at best. A little fact that is withheld from our youth.
 
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That’s why more than one method of birth control is recommended. Abstinence only programs simply don’t work and cause more STDs and unwanted pregnancies when that’s the only option available. I might be wrong but it seems like some religious people are more interested in punishing or inconveniencing people who have sex than in stopping unwanted pregnancies with the subsequent abortions
 
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I’m old enough to remember those back alley abortions . Let’s not bring those back please. Desperate women will do them . .

The argument still is that the life of the woman is precious and her plight must be ameliorated in some way...but the life of the other human being in this picture doesn't matter at all.

Many of us find that a basically untenable argument.
 
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I don’t agree, I think that a woman or girl is more important that a non viable fetus
I got that from your post. But if the fetus is actually "non viable" there isn't any real argument.

There also isn't any excuse for aborting all those preborn children who are viable. Yet that is still legal.
 
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There is no law that can stop it. People will go to states or countries that allow it.
To those can not afford that will go to back alley butchers like they used to.

Instead lets teach birth control, the pill, condoms. My mom and dad told there kids the facts of life but they did not act foolishly and think there teenage children were gonna listen to them or the pastor. So they also taught birth control. They made sure the kids had all the tools to protect themselves.

I found out last night that my friends daughter is giving birth in two weeks and they found out the the child is severally mentally handicapped a good portion of his brain did not form, and has spina biffida. That child is going to have a very short life of pure misery and agony. If they had know in time her daughter would had an abortion.

You pro lifers do not want an abortion for medical reasons, fine how many of you are going to pay for the care of such of child. If your not gonna step up...shut it!

You do not want a rape victim to have an abortion so how many of you are going to care of here medical bills and provide counseling and take that child in. If your not gonna step up...shut it!

Stopping abortion works with education, hormone filled teenagers ignore there pastors and parents all the time, they have been the beginning of time. Educate your kids...don't just give them bible because many teenagers do not pay attention. They think with there hormones'.

And understand there legitimist reasons for one. I do not know any woman who has actually had abortion for willy nilly reason.
I heard in a podcast, one way to stop abortion. Is giving the unborn babies a social security number. Murder is never ok.

1 Timothy 5:8
“But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.”
 
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Being pregnant is hard on your body in a way that no one who’s never been pregnant can understand. Some women just can’t do it. And then you get financial ,family, or societal pressure on top of that. I’m still saying it’s her choice to continue the pregnancy or not
 
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There is no law that can stop it. People will go to states or countries that allow it.
To those can not afford that will go to back alley butchers like they used to.

Instead lets teach birth control, the pill, condoms. My mom and dad told there kids the facts of life but they did not act foolishly and think there teenage children were gonna listen to them or the pastor. So they also taught birth control. They made sure the kids had all the tools to protect themselves.

I found out last night that my friends daughter is giving birth in two weeks and they found out the the child is severally mentally handicapped a good portion of his brain did not form, and has spina biffida. That child is going to have a very short life of pure misery and agony. If they had know in time her daughter would had an abortion.

You pro lifers do not want an abortion for medical reasons, fine how many of you are going to pay for the care of such of child. If your not gonna step up...shut it!

You do not want a rape victim to have an abortion so how many of you are going to care of here medical bills and provide counseling and take that child in. If your not gonna step up...shut it!

Stopping abortion works with education, hormone filled teenagers ignore there pastors and parents all the time, they have been the beginning of time. Educate your kids...don't just give them bible because many teenagers do not pay attention. They think with there hormones'.

And understand there legitimist reasons for one. I do not know any woman who has actually had abortion for willy nilly reason.
How about they take some responsiblity and don't have sex? Stop promoting murder and direct your anger at the inconsiderate actions of the people having sex.
 
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The coat hanger is a lie: Why the 'back-alley abortion' argument fails

"t was always "5,000 to 10,000 deaths a year." I confess that I knew the figures were totally false, and I suppose the others did too if they stopped to think of it. But in the "morality" of our revolution, it was a useful figure, widely accepted, so why go out of our way to correct it with honest statistics? The overriding concern was to get the laws eliminated, and anything within reason that had to be done was permissible."


"From your link: "What do honest statistics reveal? The incidence of maternal mortality—and abortion-related mortality specifically—declined dramatically through the middle part of the 20th century as a result of antibiotics and other medical advances." the linked graph is maternal deaths per live births, not deaths linked to abortion. The bitter irony here is that the article talks about "honest statistics" and then immediate proceeds to lie.




From your link: "By 1960, Dr. Mary Calderone, Planned Parenthood's medical director, concluded that "abortion, whether therapeutic or illegal, is in the main no longer dangerous." This steep drop in deaths occurred before the 1973 legalization of abortion, which had no apparent effect on mortality rates." The reference included doesn't contain the quote it attributes to Dr. Calderone.

SO another lie
 
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A major cause of abortions. Their failure rate is so high that any faith placed in them is tenuous at best. A little fact that is withheld from our youth.
can you provide evidence for this little fact?
 
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Being pregnant is hard on your body in a way that no one who’s never been pregnant can understand.
Oh my. So now the argument is that the life of the child is not as important as enduring the discomfort that any pregnancy may bring!!!!! When do we get to "It's all right to shoot that guy who took your parking place; being a driver in traffic is hard on your nerves!"

So far, the argument in favor of abortion is either that the child is not a child or else that the child causes mom some discomfort, so away with the kid. No wonder that some advocates of easy abortion also favor infanticide.

I’m still saying it’s her choice.

My neighbor is getting on my nerves. Is it okay to burn him out, then?? :scratch:

If this sounds silly, imagine how killing a child for the sake of not being inconvenienced, etc. sounds...especially in a day and age when almost any child can be placed for adoption if the mother feels stressed, cannot afford it, or otherwise doesn't want to raise her child.
 
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How about they take some responsiblity and don't have sex? Stop promoting murder and direct your anger at the inconsiderate actions of the people having sex.
Ah. The truth that pro-abortion people NEVER want to hear.

Rape aside, what they are talking about when finances or discomfort or etc. are raised as justifications for aborting the child is that the fact that the mother made a choice of her own free will is somehow not relevant.
 
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Ah. The truth that pro-abortion people NEVER want to hear.

Rape aside, what they are talking about when finances or discomfort or etc. are raised as justifications for aborting the child is that the fact that the mother made a choice of her own free will is somehow not relevant.
Exactly. You can't be defensive either, don't be decieved by their apparent moral high ground. Look closer and they've somehow sank to the bottom of the dead sea. There is forgiveness and compassion for people's sins but not aknowledging their fault or the faults of others prevents that. Also being understanding and compassionate does not mean it is acceptable.
 
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I thought this would be something pro-lifers could get behind and support:
If lawmakers must legislate our bodies, start with vasectomies
In order to prevent unplanned pregnancy, responsibility should fall on the appropriate shoulders of men. Since our state and federal officials have deemed private issues to be within the scope of their jurisdiction, I propose that all males have vasectomies before reaching puberty.

Vasectomies are simple, inexpensive, do not affect hormones or cause cancer and are reversible. When a male is willing and able to commit to financially, emotionally and mentally to supporting a child, then they can have them reversed. I’d support tax dollars to ensure that males no longer cause unplanned pregnancy.
after all a woman can only get pregnant (at most) every nine months but a man can get a woman pregnant every night of the week, to my mind it would seem pro-lifers have been trying to regulate the wrong bodies in this situation.
tulc(can't imagine why the prolife movement hasn't pushed this idea already)
 
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I thought this would be something pro-lifers could get behind and support:
If lawmakers must legislate our bodies, start with vasectomies

after all a woman can only get pregnant (at most) every nine months but a man can get a woman pregnant every night of the week, to my mind it would seem pro-lifers have been trying to regulate the wrong bodies in this situation.
tulc(can't imagine why the prolife movement hasn't pushed this idea already)
I can't open that link in the UK but Catholics for example don't see vasectomies as acceptable. They have a whacky alternative called keeping it in your pants.
 
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