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Not much to say here other than your argument is very well thought out. Although I'm not sure that I agree with all of it, I think the points you made are interesting, and they're something I'll definately ponder.

Sorry for the wishy-washy answer, just trying to get back to the OP.
 
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The average teacher's salary in this area is $89,000/ year. The idea that allowing kids to spell words incorrectly is benificial is silly. The children whose spelling I corrected were willing and capable of learning the right way to spell their words. Can't five year olds think about sounds and letters and still memorize?
 
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Sure they can do both at that age, but I don't think you should be overly concerned. Both my children learned that method in K, along with some memorization of words that can't be sounded. They later progressed to a traditional spelling lesson as should be expected in higher grades. They both are doing quite well. All I am saying is don't rush to judgement. But should there be a true issue with you district's curriculum please get involved with your school board, that's why they exist.
 
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Monica02 said:
do not believe that my tax mony should be used to fund embryonic stem cell research (I do not believe it should be done at all). It should be illegal.

To be fair, it's not *your* money anymore... After you pay it to the government, it becomes the government's money. Because America is the free country it is, we are given the privledge of deciding where our money goes through our democratic system, by electing officials who most match our spending desires and encouraging them to spend as we'd like them to. Our government is the only time (for some reason) we feel it's our right to tell who's got what used to be our money how to spend it. It facinates me that most people would never dream of handing their money over to the clerk at Wal*Mart and then calling the corporate office to tell them what to do with the $78.98 they just spent at their store, but they feel OK about doing that with the government.

In the end, with all of the programs that are funded by tax money, you end up spending less than half a dollar on each one and it's more than likely that, at some point, all of the money you put into the tax system will go back into your pocket as you take advantage of various tax-funded programs, since at the current moment, (especially with SS the way it is) people take out more than they put in.
 
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I guess I do not understand why they would even bother with the "sound-out" method if they are just going to correct it later. It seems to be a way to employ more teachers.
 
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Monica02 said:
I only had one teacher in kindergarten. She did a fine job of teaching and maintainig discipline in her classroom.

Then she was lucky to have either a small number of students or an unusually problem-free group of students along with an unusually active set of parents, interested in their children's education.

Not believing in the teachings of your Church makes you a heritic.

I believe in my faith as run by God, I have issues sometimes with the church as run by man, (remembering always that Jesus and God told us that man is prone to falling from grace through sinful practices and urges).

"Remember, He did not die for our sins.
He suffered for the truth and lived on.
Wrapped in his shroud, did he live on.
Let your faith be not blind lest you
Be lead as lambs from the reality of it.
See you not a heretic in me, but
Rather cast your eyes upon those
Others who were and are your deceivers.
For it is here that you’ve heard the speaking
That cannot be restrained.

Popular belief is not a criteria for Truth. Many times Truth stands alone… Apart from the crowd. Crowd mentality is not the air which sustains Truth.
So lock not your beliefs in a box forged by others. And be weary that Wisdom does not make His decent and finds no companionship, and dwells unrecognized the throng of searching and faithful, but equally blind souls."
"
 
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Monica02 said:
I guess I do not understand why they would even bother with the "sound-out" method if they are just going to correct it later. It seems to be a way to employ more teachers.

You might find the answer to your concerns by taking education classes or discussing it with your school's teachers and by getting involved. Believe me, employing more teachers is something many schools desperately want but can't afford.
I am not going to go into this any further because it is off topic for the OP.
 
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The problem is that the system is flawed. I HAVE to give my money to the government from each paycheck that I get and then I usually HAVE to pay more at the end of the year. And yes, we do get vote our leaders in, however, the electoral college takes away from a lot of our desires in the presidential election. I would love to hear what school district you live in that pays that much at the public level. And since public officials have to have their salaries posted at least once a year, I would like to see documentation on that. Because if teachers made that much money, then we wouldn't have such a hard time finding them to teach. And maybe educators would be seen as a more socially accepted profession rather than lawyers and stockbrokers. I am in education in LA county and more than half of my salary goes to pay my rent. Show me the morality in that please.
 
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Monica02 said:
I guess I do not understand why they would even bother with the "sound-out" method if they are just going to correct it later.


Because sounding out is an important skill children need to develop in order to learn spelling phonetically, a skill that (when combined in later years with simple grammar rules) will help them learn to spell all words, instead of memorizing frequently used words. The idea is to teach them how to construct a word through spelling techniques so that when they progress they can construct unfamiliar words and broaden their language and grammar abilities, instead of teaching them to memorize certain words and only use those words repeatedly in their reading, speaking, and writing.

Otherwise, we'd have a bunch of kids who spell like I do... :o


 
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Thank you for clearly stating what I was trying to.
 
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Spending money at Wal-Mart is a choice of the consumer, we cannot chose to not pay taxes. Illinois voted down a bill that would have used state tax monies for embryonic stem cell research. The Archdiocese of Chicago was credited as playing a large role in the bill's defeat. I organized a phone-tree campaign at my parish, and while my pro-abortion, anti-life state legislators voted for the wicked bill, I was happy that the Church was able to organize an effort to defeat it. One senator was swayed by the number of Catholic calls he received and changed his vote to no. Cardinal George recently travelled to Springfield to discuss life issues with the guv and other officials.
Our Governor was on the local news that night and sounded like a babbling idiot. His statements made no sense. I think the Cardinal scared him.
 
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I would love to hear what school district you live in that pays that much at the public level.

The public schools around here are not funded well. Our school funding methods were found unConstitutional and struck down. Many school systems were forced to adopt old contracts for their schools and teachers that dated back decades. In my school system, the contract they enforced dated back to 1967, and incoming teachers who weren't grandfathered got paid the base pay of teachers in 1967... $21,900 a year. As a result our school system filed for bankruptcy and sued the state. Now, 10 years after the ruling, we have another funding method in place, which is currently under fire from high-income towns and schools, one of those schools is suing our school district for compensation of lost revenue and taxes because they are now a "pay out" school and ours is a "pay in" school.

In short, our school system is a mess.

And since public officials have to have their salaries posted at least once a year, I would like to see documentation on that.

Last I checked, it's about 3 times that of what our teachers make. Our mayor works 12 hours a week and gets paid $120,000 a year. Our airport manager gets paid $90,000 a year despite the fact that our airport has cost us more than 12 million in 2 years from running deficets.

And maybe educators would be seen as a more socially accepted profession rather than lawyers and stockbrokers. I am in education in LA county and more than half of my salary goes to pay my rent. Show me the morality in that please.

Out of curiousity, is that because the rent there is so high, or the income is so low? This is an honest question, because I saw an article about the housing bubble over there and I was shocked at what people were paying for houses. One person I remember paid $350k for a 1 bedroom, 4 room condo. :o
 
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Monica02 said:
Spending money at Wal-Mart is a choice of the consumer, we cannot chose to not pay taxes.

You can choose to minimize your taxes. There are tax-deductable organizations you can donate to, which is why many large companies donate tons of money to charity, to offset the amount paid in general taxes.


An admirable thing for you, but is your effort to defeat the "wicked bill" well recieved by people who suffer from terminal illnesses, cancer, or other life destroying illnesses?

I think that the effort to push down these bills now is so strong because Chris Reeves has been reborn from this world. It is easier now for people to say "stem cell research is bad" when they don't have a walking miracle like Chris Reeves looking them in the eyes and showing us all who suffers when this research is pushed down.

Our Governor was on the local news that night and sounded like a babbling idiot. His statements made no sense. I think the Cardinal scared him.

I'm glad that you got amusement from the situation. I hope others found he same amusement you did, though I know there were quite a few who didn't share in your lighthearted take of the situation.

It is sad when people's medical future is played down to simple political headbutting and posturing.
 
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I think that it's both. The condo across the street sold for 1.3 million....I saw a really ugly house that is for sale down the block and is going for 2 million. I don't live in a luxurious complex though just to clarify. I work in education remember...lol
 
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Thanks. Like I said, my question is honest, not intended to be a dig or a put down. I'm just curious. I was shocked to hear a condo like that would go for so high. I just paid $129,700 for a Ranch, 2 bedrooms, 2 bath, on 2.7 acres and I'm in the process of buying undeveloped property, 97.8 acres, for $29,000 and I was shocked that people pay so much for a simple condo.

Not being from, or visiting your area, I don't know much about your housing market.

And with that, I think I'm going to call it a night. I still have to shower, and I like to read before bed. It's an early day tomorrow, so it's best to turn in. Goodnight all, peaceful dreams to everybody.
 
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You're right, privatizing schools would increase competition. Which means that the poor would lose out even more than they already do.
 
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Hi all!

Um, getting back to stem cell research...

I include the following statement as being indicative of the orthodox Jewish position:


Link: http://www.ou.org/public/statements/2005/n10.htm

And the following was in the May 29 Washington Post:


DW & I underwent several years of fertility treatment, including 9 IVFs & 2 FETs (that's Frozen Embryo Transfers) before calling it quits (you can whip a dead horse only so long & then it seems kinda pointless). DW has never become pregnant & the doctors here have absolutely no idea why. But we do not complain. God has been good to us beyond measure & has blessed us with 2 marvelous boys, both of whom we adopted (public & closed, that's how it is here; US-style private adoption is illegal here) as infants here in Israel. We still have several frozen ssvsicles in the deepfreeze at one of the Jerusalem hospitals. They, like most of the fertilized embryos that the doctors managed to concoct from my little commandos & DW's eggs, are/were of poor quality & we are inclined to leave them in the deepfreeze until they are no longer viable. (Even the few good quality embryos that we got didn't implant.) Not all frozen embryos are good quality. From what I understand, most are not, partly because the better ones get returned to the mother's body. Thus, I think that the numbers of healthy babies who could be born from the masses of frozen embryos left in deepfreezes is relatively small (very).

As a (very proud !) adoptive parent, I would strongly suggest that couples looking to adopt a child look, first of all, at the masses of actual, already-born children that are available and who are just crying (many of them literally!) for loving parents & good homes. The Union of Orthodox Jewish Congregations of America statement I cited above says:


I quote from Be Fruitful and Multiply: Fertility Therapy and the Jewish Tradition by Dr. Richard V. Grazi (published by Genesis Jerusalem Press, 1994):


Thus, I would argue that saving an actual, already-born life, by adopting it into a loving home, or possibly healing it by using embryonic stem cells, must outweigh saving potential life.

Be well!

ssv
 
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