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Starting Over

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Iron Sun 254 said:
Lots of times but I always realize that God has a plan for me and I'm just trying to do my best to follow it.
Sometimes the road is paved with its fair share of thorns, but he always manages to help us through, and lead us to "greener pastures".
 
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Starting over with thing some things would be nice, but there is more in my life I wish I could go back and completley delete it as if it never happened.
But I know all things happen for a reason, so reminding myself of that a lot seems to be some of a help.
 
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The good thing about making a mistake is that you have a chance to learn how to deal with the consequences. This is useful because we all make lots of mistakes. :thumbsup:

Since we don't get it right very often, we don't learn much by getting things right, and it is difficult to learn how to deal with the consequences of getting it right. :sigh:

:wave:
 
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alli_boo said:
How many times in your life have you wished you could start all over with a clean slate, with a new life?
Never. I would make the same mistakes all over again. And if I were to retain my memories and character, it wouldn't really be a new life. It would only be turning back the clock.

No, I strive to improve myself, but not to erase anything.
 
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Eudaimonist said:
Never. I would make the same mistakes all over again. And if I were to retain my memories and character, it wouldn't really be a new life. It would only be turning back the clock.

No, I strive to improve myself, but not to erase anything.
There isnt anything that was so bad in your life that you wanted to start over? You have never felt like that/?
 
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Eudaimonist said:
Never. I would make the same mistakes all over again. And if I were to retain my memories and character, it wouldn't really be a new life. It would only be turning back the clock.

No, I strive to improve myself, but not to erase anything.
You said it before I could, Eudaimonist. :thumbsup: I feel the same way.
 
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