Please forgive me folks.
I seem to have stirred up a lot of dissent and bad feeling, and caused a lot of hurt.
I really didn't intend this to escalate as it had - was just trying to work out what had been decided while I was away.
And am feeling sick reading through the thread this morning.
I am so very sorry - wish I had never posted. I should have thought it through.
Sorry.
And I really really have no wish to exclude anyone - if I came across that way it was through bad wording, not intent. If I have hurt you, please forgive me.
Mods - please can you lock this - don't want it to turn into another debate...
I seem to have stirred up a lot of dissent and bad feeling, and caused a lot of hurt.
I really didn't intend this to escalate as it had - was just trying to work out what had been decided while I was away.
And am feeling sick reading through the thread this morning.
I am so very sorry - wish I had never posted. I should have thought it through.
Sorry.
And I really really have no wish to exclude anyone - if I came across that way it was through bad wording, not intent. If I have hurt you, please forgive me.
Mods - please can you lock this - don't want it to turn into another debate...