Slipped so far..........

[lilbobby86]

After my mother died of cancer. I've had a lot of "freedoms". She was the only christian in the household for the most part. She took us to church and stuff, but me and my bro never really accepted Christ in our hearts, at least I don't think so. Because when she died, we sorta just fell into sin. After a few years after her death, I accepted Christ "back into" my life, but its hard for me to live a good christian life. A lot of my friends and family aren't christian and I dont even have available transportation to get me to a nearby church on Sundays. My holy spirit has been telling me whats right and wrong, but I've slipped so far. Can anybody help me?

 

[Mr.Cheese]

When you go through something like the death of your mom, it's ok if you short circuit for a while. So take it easy on yourself. Stay in the Word. So many times it's all I ever had and it got me through so far.

 

[enslow]

If you really can't make it to church Sundays, God understands. If you can't say grace aloud at meals, God understands. If you have no one yet to pray with, or talk about God with, God understands. You can pray on your own each Sunday, you can say grace silently before meals. God sees your inner most heart. Once you see it is possible to do all these things aloud, do so.

If your buddies lure you into petling others with snowballs, if you use foul language along side your buddies, God will have you answer to that because your heart can't be right. However, if you're strong enough to do the right thing in spite of those around you, God will see you through it.

What I learned about Him is that He fights for you even when you've got your back turned away from Him. Much like a God-fearing father fighting for his rebellious son. He leaves little 'gifts' out for you to pick up. The trick is for you to be able to see which ones are from Him.

By the way, if you fear you can't see the right way to go, don't despair. I took a wrong turn during my mid-20's which lead me down a path that was challenge too great for me. It took me a decade to see my way out, and now I see He was always there.

Enslow

 

[drdeancrosby]

Bobby,no anybody can't help you but God can.First let me correct one word you used.You said "my"Holy Spirit" which I'm afraid doesn't exist.There is God's Holy Spirit and you definitely should pray for the baptism of the Holy Spirit after you once again pray to God,ask Him to forgive you of your sins and once again accept Jesus as your personal savior.There's only one way to know if you're following God's rules,and that's to read your bible regularly.If you listen to your friends you can get into big trouble.For instance,your friends might try to encourage you to join the military but Jesus taught us to love our enemies.As far as your transportation problem,if you call some nearby churches,you may find that some provide transportation.Failing that,you can conduct your own worship service by watching religious television programs,listening to Christian radio and cd music,studying your bible and reading Christian books.If you do these things,you can get rid of your sins and become a very spiritual person.

 

[tinkerbell]

Going to church is not what makes you a Christian, so don't sweat that. However, it is nice to have that support to back you up and be there for you in your Christian walk. I have a few suggestions for you. The first is to spend time with God everyday in prayer and in scripture. You can spend 15 mins or an hour, whatever you feel God leading you to do (don't jip God, but at the same time don't force yourself to pop out more minutes if it's for the soul purpose of adding more time). Surrender yourself continually to him, daily, hourly, maybe even every second of every day if that's what it takes. Also, look out for a group of Christians at school or work. Try to get involved with them. Who knows, you may even be able to find someone to go to church with. The key is: don't give up.I will be praying for you. Let me know how things are going.
God Bless

 

[Hound]

Patience with yourself is just as important as patience with others. If you fall, let God pick you up and march on. By nature I am a proud and self-reliant person. I am not known as a "nice guy." (My subordinates often refer to me behind my back as "The Warden.") The largest obstacle to my walk with the Lord has been letting go of the darkness and letting the Light run the freak show that has been my life. No matter how far down you are the Lord can still reach you. I am living proof. BTW If you can't make it to church on sunday, no sweat. We can help you. Although, I realize I am not being much help right now.

 

[RED that's ME]

Losing a parent can rock your world! I would encourage you to find some type of counseling to help you. Some churches have a program called GriefShare which is great.
You said you had transportation problems getting to church have you thought of talking with someone at your church and see if you can catch a ride? Most people would be more than happy to help in that area. Like the others said make sure you keep your daily walk with God foremost! That's what will get you through. God Bless!

 

[beagleracing]

lilbobby,

Matthew 18:20
"For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them."

My suggestion is for you to get together with you friends and family in His name to read and share with each other. By definition, that does constitute a church. You do not need to go to a physical building in order to gain understanding, wisdom, life from God.

If you friends or family are not Christians....then believe it or not, and as difficult as it sounds, this is you blessing in disguise to share the Gospel with them. That's what love is all about. have an impromptu get together to ask what they do believe in. You'll be surprised where that question can lead!

dp

 

[theatrejunkie]

The best you can do is repent and stop looking backward. Just keep plowing forward.

Church is very important, so I would suggest doing what others here have suggested.

1. Call around to churches--great idea (maybe ask to talk to the youth pastor)! Find a denomination that suits you (Pentecostal is what I attend, and we have a lively group of youth). If they have a great youth group, the better. But I have a feeling you wouldn't have difficulty finding a ride by calling (if it is hard to find one, can your brother or other family member drive, or friend).

2. Lots of schools have Bible meetings or something. Look for one to meet other Christians.

3. I think it's great that you're plugged into this Christian community. Every bit helps.

4. And don't forget the encouragement of reading the Word, Christian books, and listening to Christian music.

5. And if you find one thing or person that leads you into temptation, then by all means, let it go. But at the same time, if you have Christian friends who aren't a temptation, don't give up on them either.

But I think the best thing I have found is to have a good group of Christian friends to offer support.

Keep us posted! I'll pray for you.

 

[180degrees]

hey i think i know a little of what you are going through! Mt mom did not die or anything but I am the only one in my family who goes to church! i am the only one who prays and reads the Bible! Luckily i have an amazing friend who takes me to church on Sundays otherwise i would not have what i have. You just have to hang in there. Remember you can get a blessing anywhere. So if you feel like you are slipping away just Pray. He will answer!