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Simply Unreliable

Signs of this world, signs given by the superstitious, are irrational and false. For example, the city of Rome was founded by a guy who interpreted that the birds he saw were a message from his idol gods to found a great city. God may guide us through dreams as he did Joseph and John or he may literally call us as he did Samuel. But only he knows how he will lead his people.





Hebrews 13:5 says that God will never leave us or forsake us. Especially not while we are making an important decision. When we trust God instead of flipping coins and rolling 8 balls for major decisions, we eliminate all fallacy.

But we do no t eliminate the possibility of going places we never thought possible.

God’s will is a mysterious thing. Jonah never dreamed of being in a whale for 3 days and nights.

As it says in Isaiah 55:8,

God’s plans are not ours and our ways are very different

Those who write predictions for fortune cookies and responses for 8 balls have imaginations that pale and fall far short of God’s truth







Sometimes in life you may find that on what you were always able to rely is not there when you need it

The weatherman may say that it will be sunny…But as then the torrential downpour begins

The cafeteria menu says it s going to be tacos and macaroni…but when you get to the cafeteria, they are serving soup and some unidentified meat

So…what can you rely on?

Well, if you are truly desperate, you can ask the 8ball to help you decide between mystery meat and soup. But that’s all that’s good for



When you feel like there are no constants in this world, you may conclude that all you are able to rely on is yourself. God gives a message in the Bible over and over again. Through many stories he shows that he is steady. Steady when all else falls away. We can depend on God to give us love, hope, strength, meaning, and truth and to surround us with his presence.

However when we do not rely on God, when we are not filled with his joy and delighting in his truth, we ourselves are simply, unreliable