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Silly question and embaresing

looksgood

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I have never felt so strongly for anyone as I do my GF. And being a guy this is kinda embaresing. I wonder if maybe I was the only guy that does this. See...she isn't really emotional, so when she says she loves me she has no problem. I can say it too without a problem. But when I really start to talk with her about how I love her I get all choked up. It's cause it is comeing from so deep down that it feels so powerfull. And the embaresing part...is I come close to tears telling her how much I love her. I just talked with her tonight and that happend. My hands are still shaking. Am I the only guy moved to tears like this?
 

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Buddy, love can do some amazing things to the way you think about your special one. I don't consider myself to be much of an emotional guy either, but just the realisation of how much I am loved by my g/f has almost been enough to move me to tears. She posted something on CF that absolutely blew me out of the water yesterday so to speak, and it's still something that amazes me. But I know that when I see her face to face in January, we'll both need tissues...:p
 
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DaveKerwin said:
Obviously love is something that is built close to your soul, be careful with it. Scripture tells us to guart our hearts, and not to awaken love before its time. Be wise with your heart!
It was God who woke my love up. I was carefull to be sure He would be the one to say if I should be with her. When He said yes, I knew my heart could trust in her. And YES it IS biblical to say your heart should safely trust in her. God is the center of our relationship. And He is blessing so much.
 
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looksgood said:
And the embaresing part...is I come close to tears telling her how much I love her. I just talked with her tonight and that happend. My hands are still shaking. Am I the only guy moved to tears like this?

Nothing to be embarrassed about buddy. Some of the most powerful men in the world cried like King David and Jesus. you aren't the only one. when i was with my ex i cried to her too when i would try to express my feelings... that was a turn off for her though :| i don't know what to think.
 
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I went through the same thing. I cried in front of my girlfriend...and she cried with me. But you know what? She loves me because I am emotional with her...and I love her because she is emotional with me. It shows your girlfriend that you love her unconditionally and you have nothing to hide. Girls really love being told and shown that someone loves them...especially if you are moved to tears over them.
 
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I don't thinkg there is a problem with that at all. As fiveinjuly said, I think that is something that most girls would really find as an endeering quality. It is so moving to know that someone loves you that much. There is no question in the sincerity of your love, and I'm sure your girlfriend admires that greatly!
 
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You shouldn't feel embarassed AT ALL!! As 'fiveinjuly' said, I think ALOT of girls would want their boyfriends to feel such strong feelings! For me personally, I know I get all "weak in the knees" whenever my boyfriend cries! I mean...I obviously hate to see him cry out of sadness, but at the same I love it because it just re-assures me of how much he loves me...because he is willing to give up his "manly pride" and show his emotions!
 
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