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Should one confess his sins to God or Priest?

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I have never heard a pastor say the words "I forgive you all your sins" I instead have heard the phrase " I declare to you that your sins have been forgiven".

In any case this is not a communal sharing of specific sins but a confession of general sinfulness.
 
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In any case this is not a communal sharing of specific sins but a confession of general sinfulness.

That is the same understanding I took from the earlier posts and referred to in post 140.
 
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Why not directly to God? Why go through the trouble of telling the priest?

I'm not Catholic, but I think the process of admitting to someone else what you have done, adds a degree of shame that some might not otherwise experience because they know God already knows what they did. So in some ways, the person has to be repentant enough to suffer the shame of confessing. In addition, by oral confession, it is like admitting it on record.
 
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Oh, I see. No, that's not what is meant by public confession. The division between public and private is a matter of communally-confessed sin (such as in the examples given above by our friend ViaCrucis) and individually-confessed sin, which obviously take different forms but are still confession(s). Liturgical confessions apply to the entire community just as liturgical absolutions do (which is one of the reason why you still see people who are technically excommunicated showing up to Coptic liturgies, for instance; they can still participate in the liturgy even though they cannot receive communion, so they still get the blessings of the absolutions which are prayed over the assembled people), and as I understand it both are a part of the liturgies of basically every church which is traditional enough to have an actual liturgy. I just didn't want to say "Lutherans have this too" without knowing anything about it since I don't know Lutheranism, but I was fairly certain that it must be in there somewhere. A big thank you is due to ViaCrucis for his reply confirming this. (Thank you, ViaCrucis.)
 
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God forgives any sin that is confessed.
 
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Different forms of the same thing. Though it is worth noting that Luther in the Small Catechism writes,

"As thou believest, so be it done unto thee. And by the command of our Lord Jesus Christ I forgive thee thy sins, in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Ghost. Amen. Depart in peace." - Small Catechism, V

-CryptoLutheran
 
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I think by saying I declare that your sins are forgiven one avoids any misunderstanding that might arise for those not that schooled in theology.
 
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That's easy way out! Where in bible does it say so?

"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." - 1 John 1:9

In the Christian religion forgiveness is freely given by God to sinners. That means everyone. God doesn't forgive you because you do X, Y, or Z; God's forgiveness is already yours on Christ's account, because God is kind and loves you. And by "you" and "yours" I don't just mean that in a general sense, I also mean that in a specific sense. You, Godistruth1, are forgiven of all your sins because Jesus died and rose again, and the kindness of God is for you, a sinner, through no merit, effort, worthiness of your own. Regardless of what you've done, what you will do, or who you are there is a God who loves you, and forgives you, and is merciful toward you. That is the Christian confession of the Gospel.

When we confess our sins, we are confident that God forgives us our sins, because of the word and promise of God in Jesus.

It's not an "easy way out", it's simply who God is in relation to you and the whole world. He's the One who loves and forgives sinners, saving them, redeeming them, and calling them to be children, heirs, sons and daughters, that they might know Him and enjoy Him.

-CryptoLuthearn
 
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We don't confess our sins to be shamed, but because God in His kindness forgives us, loves us, and embraces us in Jesus.

Confession and Absolution are Gospel, for our comfort and assurance in Jesus Christ who gave His life for us that we might live.

-CryptoLutheran
 
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That's easy way out! Where in bible does it say so?

“But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness.”
‭‭1 John‬ ‭1:9‬
 
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I find it hard to believe that you don't feel shame about the acts you committed when you confess them unless you don't think they were a big deal.
 
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I find it hard to believe that you don't feel shame about the acts you committed when you confess them unless you don't think they were a big deal.

Shame and guilt for doing them? Yes. But the point of confessing our sins isn't to feel shame, but to be comforted with the forgiveness and mercy of God.

-CryptoLutheran
 
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Shame and guilt for doing them? Yes. But the point of confessing our sins isn't to feel shame, but to be comforted with the forgiveness and mercy of God.

-CryptoLutheran

The point is to admit you were wrong and modify your behavior, correct? Part of the process of modifying your behavior is to not feel good about what you did. That is repentance.
 
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The context tells us to confess sins to God not men.
 
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“But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness.”
‭‭1 John‬ ‭1:9‬
Verse is telling us to confess sins to God not fellow Christian
 
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Does this come down to "What constitutes confessing to God?"

If you kneel at your bedside and confess to God mentally or verbally while you are alone, I would agree that you are confessing to God. If you recite your offenses to a priest who pronounces absolution for and in the name of God, with everyone knowing that only God can ultimately forgive sins and that he does forgive those who are repentant...

...is there a meaningful difference?? Are the sins NOT forgiven in the second case above?
 
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The context tells us to confess sins to God not men.

I don't believe God is so small that He somehow can't hear my confession when I pray it with the rest of the Church, or if I were to talk to my pastor, or speak to a fellow brother.

-CryptoLutheran
 
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I don't believe God is so small that He somehow can't hear my confession when I pray it with the rest of the Church, or if I were to talk to my pastor, or speak to a fellow brother.

-CryptoLutheran
Why did u replace God by men to prove your point?
 
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