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Should i reveal what happened to me on Discord to the public?

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On an official Discord server for a small indie game i got into a feud about piracy and how i view it as a sin of greed in and of itself and two wrongs don't make a right.
A priest got involved and told it was fine but i disagreed with their logic, this got people to go after me, but then the priest told me something that i called out for as it was a word i felt to be lazy, and that got them to accuse me of being a racist.
I defended myself and told the priest they shouldn't be making false accusations and i warned them by pointing out that satan himself is an accuser, and then the priest started praising satan right at me and everyone ganged up on me.
Even accused me of condemning the priest to hell because i warn them how such behavior is not good and wouldn't get them to heaven if they're a satanist.
Eventually two of the people working on the game got involved and made me out to be a bad guy, eventually the next day when i decided to defend myself i got banned.
I managed to get screen shots of what happened as well as DMs with those two working on the game and i was wondering if it's ethically OK to let the public know what happened as the people on the Discord, including some employees, defended satanism.
One of the developers also encouraged the idea of me making it public.
 

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On an official Discord server for a small indie game i got into a feud about piracy and how i view it as a sin of greed in and of itself and two wrongs don't make a right.
A priest got involved and told it was fine but i disagreed with their logic, this got people to go after me, but then the priest told me something that i called out for as it was a word i felt to be lazy, and that got them to accuse me of being a racist.
I defended myself and told the priest they shouldn't be making false accusations and i warned them by pointing out that satan himself is an accuser, and then the priest started praising satan right at me and everyone ganged up on me.
Even accused me of condemning the priest to hell because i warn them how such behavior is not good and wouldn't get them to heaven if they're a satanist.
Eventually two of the people working on the game got involved and made me out to be a bad guy, eventually the next day when i decided to defend myself i got banned.
I managed to get screen shots of what happened as well as DMs with those two working on the game and i was wondering if it's ethically OK to let the public know what happened as the people on the Discord, including some employees, defended satanism.
One of the developers also encouraged the idea of me making it public.

I do believe that this would be a good time for self-reflection on your part. Being right or wrong is one thing, but being right doesn't excuse being discourteous, even when others are being discourteous towards you. For someone who claims to be intent on doing what God wants, the first skill that you should focus on is being kind. If you can conquer that one, then the path that you choose won't really be all that important, because "whither thou goest, I will go."
 
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I do believe that this would be a good time for self-reflection on your part. Being right or wrong is one thing, but being right doesn't excuse being discourteous, even when others are being discourteous towards you. For someone who claims to be intent on doing what God wants, the first skill that you should focus on is being kind. If you can conquer that one, then the path that you choose won't really be all that important, because "whither thou goest, I will go."
But i was kind, they still treated me like the bad guy anyway.
 
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A priest got involved and told it was fine but i disagreed with their logic, this got people to go after me, but then the priest told me something that i called out for as it was a word i felt to be lazy, and that got them to accuse me of being a racist.
I defended myself and told the priest they shouldn't be making false accusations and i warned them by pointing out that satan himself is an accuser, and then the priest started praising satan right at me and everyone ganged up on me.
The bolded is where I did a double-take. A priest praising satan ?

Either he is claiming to be a priest but actually isn't one (I'm wondering what a priest would be doing on a gaming Discord to begin with), or there's a Catholic congregation (I'm assuming he's Catholic) somewhere out there that may need to know more about the guy preaching at them from their church's pulpit, never mind handling the Eucharist each week.
 
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The bolded is where I did a double-take. A priest praising satan ?

Either he is claiming to be a priest but actually isn't one (I'm wondering what a priest would be doing on a gaming Discord to begin with), or there's a Catholic congregation (I'm assuming he's Catholic) somewhere out there that may need to know more about the guy preaching at them from their church's pulpit, never mind handling the Eucharist each week.
It''s a girl who claims to be a priest and also a satanist.
 
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It''s a girl who claims to be a priest and also a satanist.
Don't hang out with people like that. Distance yourself from the whole situation and get back to God. He loves you and is waiting for you.
 
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Don't hang out with people like that. Distance yourself from the whole situation and get back to God. He loves you and is waiting for you.
You're right. I should have faith that God will take care of them for me. I should work on healing myself.
 
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It''s a girl who claims to be a priest and also a satanist.
The occult has all kinds of "priests". And for all you know, you were dealing with a bunch of teenagers. Also it could be the "priest" was using sock-puppets. It's best to shake the dust of that place off your feet, put it behind you, and move on. It's not worth pursuing.

And whoever will not receive you nor hear your words, when you depart from that house or city, shake off the dust from your feet. Matthew 10:14
 
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Your banned, let it go. It will fester longer as unforgiveness if you do not. I think that is the high road. Jesus said we always will have those that offend us. It is not a church member where you can go before the pastor so I pray you can move on quickly.
 
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Your banned, let it go. It will fester longer as unforgiveness if you do not. I think that is the high road. Jesus said we always will have those that offend us. It is not a church member where you can go before the pastor so I pray you can move on quickly.
I'll be honest, i was moving on, but then i read your reply and now i am not so sure if i should anymore.
No offence but your attitude makes me feel like your not talking for my best intents so i am now thinking i should just go through with it.
 
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I'll be honest, i was moving on, but then i read your reply and now i am not so sure if i should anymore.
No offence but your attitude makes me feel like your not talking for my best intents so i am now thinking i should just go through with it.
Eh, i apologies for this statement, just felt some anger coming from your reply and i felt a flight or fight response coming.
 
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"No one engaged in warfare entangles himself with the affairs of this life, that he may please him who enlisted him as a soldier." (2 Timothy 2:4)

So, this could be something to stay away from. Or, you could get tangled.

Be prayerful about where our attention belongs. Games can be isolating, not helping us to submit to God and relate with children of God.
 
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Speaking from personal experience, exposure does little to stop corrupt forum and Discord owners. They will simply continue with their misdeeds and look for more victims. However, exposing evil is what we are called to do as Christians:

Ephesians 5:11-13 said:
Do not participate in the useless deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them; for it is disgraceful even to speak of the things which are done by them in secret. But all things become visible when they are exposed by the light, for everything that becomes visible is light.

1 John 3:19-21 said:
And this is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the Light; for their deeds were evil. For everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come to the Light, so that his deeds will not be exposed. But the one who practices the truth comes to the Light, so that his deeds will be revealed as having been performed in God.”

So yes, by all means make it public, on social media or whatever, and then move on. You’re not going to be able to change them, but it will avoid other people getting the same treatment.

All I got from my huge expose rant long ago against that forum that unjustly banned me long ago was getting a couple of people to close their accounts in protest. That forum is still online. Today I just want my account back because I miss my old friends, but on other days I have contemplated dark retribution. In their defense I was suffering from trauma, limerence, shock and chaos at the time, but I am older now. In my defense, they were ineffective, corrupt, abusive and thoughtless - personally attacking their own members and psychoanalyzing them, and promoting transgender behavior at the expense of their Christian members. It was not a good place for me to be. May the Lord guard you from what I have suffered and allow you to move on to better Discord servers and kinder individuals who support your Christian faith.
 
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"For what have I to do with judging those also who are outside? Do you not judge those who are inside? But those who are outside God judges." (in 1 Corinthians 5:12-13)

Going by this scripture, I would say it is not your job to try to deal with evil people. But first, we need to make sure we ourselves are doing things right and helping each other to get real correction so we mature in how Jesus is and loves.

However > @linux.poet > says,

"exposing evil is what we are called to do as Christians" > in Post #14 above.

And Linux gives us Ephesians 5:11-13.

However . . . where does our evaluating need to be "first" > I consider >

"For the time has come for judgment to begin at the house of God; and if it begins with us first, what will be the end of those who do not obey the gospel of God?" (1 Peter 4:17)

So . . . are you mainly sharing with Jesus Christ's brothers and sisters, helping each other to grow in Jesus and how He has us relating with one another?

"with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love," (Ephesians 4:2)

"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32)

So, this is where God calls our attention > to being gentle and humble like Jesus, being ready with "longsuffering" for when and how other Christians and we ourselves can be wrong, and forgiving the way God has forgiven us.

By means of God we *put away* evil emotions and feelings and thinking which are anti-love. And then we can become kind and tenderhearted and forgiving like Jesus who is in us sharing with us how He is. So, do not just struggle with wrong stuff in us, but trust God to get rid of it. And >

"Do all things without complaining and disputing, that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation" > in Philippians 2:13-16.

With God, we get rid of whatever in us would cause us to argue or complain. Again, we do not just try to discipline ourselves while holding in wrong stuff, but have God get rid of it and change us into how Jesus is and relates and creates what we do to love any person.

We need, then, first to deal with things which can harm us Christians, that we can be involved with, ourselves . . . such as anger and arguing and complaining and unforgiveness and lusts.
 
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"For what have I to do with judging those also who are outside? Do you not judge those who are inside? But those who are outside God judges." (in 1 Corinthians 5:12-13)

Going by this scripture, I would say it is not your job to try to deal with evil people. But first, we need to make sure we ourselves are doing things right and helping each other to get real correction so we mature in how Jesus is and loves.

However > @linux.poet > says,

"exposing evil is what we are called to do as Christians" > in Post #14 above.

And Linux gives us Ephesians 5:11-13.

However . . . where does our evaluating need to be "first" > I consider >

"For the time has come for judgment to begin at the house of God; and if it begins with us first, what will be the end of those who do not obey the gospel of God?" (1 Peter 4:17)

So . . . are you mainly sharing with Jesus Christ's brothers and sisters, helping each other to grow in Jesus and how He has us relating with one another?

"with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love," (Ephesians 4:2)

"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32)

So, this is where God calls our attention > to being gentle and humble like Jesus, being ready with "longsuffering" for when and how other Christians and we ourselves can be wrong, and forgiving the way God has forgiven us.

By means of God we *put away* evil emotions and feelings and thinking which are anti-love. And then we can become kind and tenderhearted and forgiving like Jesus who is in us sharing with us how He is. So, do not just struggle with wrong stuff in us, but trust God to get rid of it. And >

"Do all things without complaining and disputing, that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation" > in Philippians 2:13-16.

With God, we get rid of whatever in us would cause us to argue or complain. Again, we do not just try to discipline ourselves while holding in wrong stuff, but have God get rid of it and change us into how Jesus is and relates and creates what we do to love any person.

We need, then, first to deal with things which can harm us Christians, that we can be involved with, ourselves . . . such as anger and arguing and complaining and unforgiveness and lusts.
The content of the verse about judging those outside has to do with not holding unbelievers to follow Scriptural commands, but rather believers. The context is a group of believers who need to punish one of their own, and that verse is supposed to mean that we are not to judge unbelievers for their sexual immorality, but only those in the family of believers.

Christianity is not a call to be “nice”. Many of these verses here are how Christians are supposed to treat each other. They are not a justification for allowing a satanist to walk all over you!

Ephesians 6:10-12 said:
Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might. Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.

Is the owner of an evil Discord server not a ruler and a power? Are they not a party to the spiritual forces of wickedness? Sometimes a Christian is called to fight evil, to expose evil, and to use force to defeat the designs of the devil, which we are not ignorant of (2 Corinthians 2:11). We are not called to roll over and play dead.

We are also called to be salt and light in the face of a crooked and perverse generation. We need to address evil within ourselves, yes, but we must also take a stand against external forms of evil and their consequences.
 
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On an official Discord server for a small indie game i got into a feud about piracy and how i view it as a sin of greed in and of itself and two wrongs don't make a right.
A priest got involved and told it was fine but i disagreed with their logic, this got people to go after me, but then the priest told me something that i called out for as it was a word i felt to be lazy, and that got them to accuse me of being a racist.
I defended myself and told the priest they shouldn't be making false accusations and i warned them by pointing out that satan himself is an accuser, and then the priest started praising satan right at me and everyone ganged up on me.
Even accused me of condemning the priest to hell because i warn them how such behavior is not good and wouldn't get them to heaven if they're a satanist.
Eventually two of the people working on the game got involved and made me out to be a bad guy, eventually the next day when i decided to defend myself i got banned.
I managed to get screen shots of what happened as well as DMs with those two working on the game and i was wondering if it's ethically OK to let the public know what happened as the people on the Discord, including some employees, defended satanism.
One of the developers also encouraged the idea of me making it public.
Satanists do have "priests" within their religious framework, so she probably never meant that she is a Catholic priest to begin with. As far as posting anything publicly, that's up to you. I think the most important thing here is that you cut ties with this group of people and give yourself time to heal. Spend some time in prayer and in God's word.
 
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We are not called to roll over and play dead.
But Jesus did die. And His death done obediently has accomplished so much. This includes how "through death He might destroy him who had the power of death, that is, the devil" (in Hebrews 2:14-15).

So, Jesus was not only playing dead. And He was reaching the source of the problem, not merely superficially fighting.

I would say we could say Jesus beat Satan while Jesus was the dead Man.
We are also called to be salt and light in the face of a crooked and perverse generation. We need to address evil within ourselves, yes, but we must also take a stand against external forms of evil and their consequences.
What works best is how God reaches the source. And I would say He either destroys or He changes the character.

I think of how Christian wives can win a disobedient husband "without a word", we have in 1 Peter 3:1-4. And Jesus said His disciples would not fight because His kingdom is not of this world.

Even so, God has police officers and activists, I would say. But what really works . . . can be deeper. Or else, we might be getting a possum to play with us for a while until it has a more opportune time.
 
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But Jesus did die. And His death done obediently has accomplished so much. This includes how "through death He might destroy him who had the power of death, that is, the devil" (in Hebrews 2:14-15).

So, Jesus was not only playing dead. And He was reaching the source of the problem, not merely superficially fighting.
Christ may have been called to die, but we are called to live. Live! When Paul said “I am crucified with Christ, it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me” he was referring to crucifying his sin nature, not all of the rest of him!

Matthew 22:35-38 said:
And He said to them, “When I sent you out without money belt and bag and sandals, you did not lack anything, did you?” They said, “No, nothing.” And He said to them, “But now, whoever has a money belt is to take it along, likewise also a bag, and whoever has no sword is to sell his cloak and buy . For I tell you that this which is written must be fulfilled in Me: ‘’; for that which refers to Me has fulfillment.” They said, “Lord, look, here are two swords.” And He said to them, “It is enough.”

We are called to use the mechanisms of the world, the purse, bag, and sword, after Christ’s death, to further the proclaimation of the Gospel. It is not a sin to slaughter a dragon and post a warning sign in front of a snake pit. I already posted Ephesians 6, so I’m not sure what more to tell you. How are we supposed to proclaim the Gospel if we are all dead? We must live, proclaim the Gospel, and fight evil to the last!

I think of how Christian wives can win a disobedient husband "without a word", we have in 1 Peter 3:1-4. And Jesus said His disciples would not fight because His kingdom is not of this world.
This is not a marriage relationship we’re talking about here. This is the world, this is the internet, and these people have done wrong. I mean, you might be able to talk nice to a forum owner and get back online in some instances, but I don’t think this is one of them. And even if one could do that, does a Christian really want to hang out in a Discord server with a satanic priest? I think not.

There is a subtle difference between using worldly mechanisms and fighting for said mechanisms (the latter is what unbelievers do). I’m pretty confident that exposing this server is just using the mechanism of public social media for God’s glory and honor, it’s not about taking worldly positions just for the sake of taking them. We are called to expose and push back evil, not attack platforms and people.

People who I actually talk to on Discord are in my deep private inner circle of Internet counsel. I’ve engaged in personal evangelism on there too, offered personal counsel to those suffering, and talked with some of my closest Christian friends there. The massive servers, however, to an extent, really do violence to that concept, filled with junk messages and lies posted by unbelievers. It’s like a firehose of low-level communication that’s too difficult to sort through. This means that getting banned from a Discord server can be like “ah whatever, no big deal” or it can be a deep personal hurt similar to losing a friend IRL multiplied by about 15 or 40. The latter should be respected in my view.

So, here is my general counsel for Christian Discord use:
1. If you don’t need to be on a server, don’t be on a server. Go through your server list and purge regularly. Prioritize getting off large unbeliever servers and stay on smaller Christian ones.
2. Keep notifications, especially server notifications, turned off at all times.
3. Force yourself to use the computer for Discord and not your tablet or phone. This will help you give the person or people you’re dealing with your undivided attention when you are on to talk or text. It also gives Discord itself less personal information that it can use to track your conversations and link them to your real life identity.
4. Know that while Discord is private, it’s not encrypted. Your only real privacy is the anonymity of your screen name and the fact that most people don’t know how to hack in to expose all of the pages so they can view them. Do not exchange legal or financial information there for any reason.

When posting a server or forum, I think actually asking oneself the question “How would I feel if I was banned from this place?” is actually a good regular reflection. If you would write it off with “ah whatever, no big deal” it may be time to stop wasting your time. On the other hand, if you’re very very personally invested, it may be time to diversify the platforms you are using to talk with these people or take the conversation offline. If you’re square in the middle of those two extremes, you might want to try becoming a moderator for the server or forum yourself - after all, a not-invested moderator is a lazy and violent one that bans people because it’s no big deal, whereas a very personally invested moderator won’t ban anyone because “Nooooooooo! My friend!” :p A balance of feeling, generally speaking, is required. From a ministry perspective, it’s not about the platforms (which are worldly goals) but about the people who use them, protecting them from harm, engaging in discipline if necessary, and treating them with courtesy and respect. (For the most part, anyway - this place is called Christian Forums so defending this platform is defending Christian proclamation of truth on the internet because said truth is bound up with the label.) When a platform owner is not doing this, they are engaging in evil, aka “despicable deeds of darkness”, and that darkness needs to face the Light of truth. It’s about pointing unbelievers to the Gospel and edifying the believers in Christ at that point.

I do not regret my actions in exposing the corruption of that unbeliever forum long ago, for it allowed me to present the Gospel to some unbelievers who badly needed to hear it. It is important to take a stand for the Gospel in light of Ephesians 6, and this can be done so on the internet without resorting to worldly conquest. There’s a difference between exposing corruption and evil (a Christian response) and engaging in DDoS attacks, which would be the worldly conquest response here. We are NOT called to mount those kinds of attacks in the name of Christ, and besides, they are illegal and unbiblical on that basis with Romans 13. I would encourage you to not confuse worldly conquest with spiritual warfare.
 
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