Do you and your spouse share your hopes, wishes, and dreams with each other in all aspects of your relationship?
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Sharing fantasies?
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To find out if spouses are communicating their desires and dreams effectively. I wasn't asking people to share their fantasies with the rest of us, just to vote in the poll.
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My husband and I do share fantasies and dreams. We have a very communicative relationship and I think that is very healthy.
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GodBoy809
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Well, i'm not married, but i have shared my dreams and fantasies with my girlfriend....well, fantasies i've had, i try not to have them cus i try to keep my mind as clean as possible.
But greg, why would it matter if you told your spouse about your dreams and stuff. The Bible says that you are to love your wife as christ loves the church. And i'm sure that nothing is kept private there, so why would you try and keep them from your spouse? I mean, i could see how you may feel uncomfortable talking about it. And if you are so uncomfortable to where you wont talk about it, then dont. But it wont hurt to talk about it with your spouse, would it?
But greg, why would it matter if you told your spouse about your dreams and stuff. The Bible says that you are to love your wife as christ loves the church. And i'm sure that nothing is kept private there, so why would you try and keep them from your spouse? I mean, i could see how you may feel uncomfortable talking about it. And if you are so uncomfortable to where you wont talk about it, then dont. But it wont hurt to talk about it with your spouse, would it?
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Dawn Marie
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Sometimes. I wish it was more often though.
Communication is important no matter what the topic is.
Communication is important no matter what the topic is.
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MichaelFJF
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Given the subject matter of the rest of this poster's OPs, the point seems to be a little trolling....hmmmm? MPray4Isrel said:So what's the point of this question, if you don't mind my asking? Is there a reason, a deeper meaning to asking this?
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My hubby and I are very open on our likes and dislikes etc...
As far as fantsies...it depends what you mean on fantasy. If my husband or any man had a fantasy about a threesome, I would not want to know - if I did know, I would pray for Him to be rid of the fantasy.
If you mean something like..."I would love for us to go to so and so place and do so and so together by candelight blah blah blah (leaving out the explicits)" - I think is wonderful.
As far as fantsies...it depends what you mean on fantasy. If my husband or any man had a fantasy about a threesome, I would not want to know - if I did know, I would pray for Him to be rid of the fantasy.
If you mean something like..."I would love for us to go to so and so place and do so and so together by candelight blah blah blah (leaving out the explicits)" - I think is wonderful.
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Knight
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coastie said:I have this one fantasy where I am fly fishing on the Salmon River in Idaho....
what?!
That's the whole thing, ok? Sheesh!
Does Mrs. Coastie know about this? Or is she fishing next to you.
Still, that does sound like fun..........
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