Separating after 30 years

[Heart of a Seeker]

My husband and I are separating after 30 years of marriage. We're both Christians, been to counseling, but we feel that we need some time apart to sort things out. We know all the Biblical things about divorce.

I would just like to know if there's anyone else out there who is going through or has gone through the same thing.

 

[AirForceTeacher]

So sorry to hear that .. my wife and I were separated for a few months two years ago, and we're in a rough spot right now. Dont give up, don't lose hope, and try to remember why you were fond of your hubbie in the first place, and what made you fond of him recently.

 

[madison1101]

My divorce started out as sorting things out. Pray for your husband and your marriage. Read Stormie O'Martian's book on praying for your husband. It is powerful.

 

[cjba]

I pray you two will work things out. 30 years is a long time to just give up.

You are in my prayers.

God Bless

 

[libby42]

My husband and I are separating after 30 years of marriage. We're both Christians, been to counseling, but we feel that we need some time apart to sort things out. We know all the Biblical things about divorce.

I would just like to know if there's anyone else out there who is going through or has gone through the same thing.

I been married almost 23 years and we have separated due to continuos infidelity on his part, don't know if we will divorce at this point, it has all been so very painful, time apart has been good in regards to making him reflect on what he is losing and has prompted him to seek help and which is something he never did before, time apart is helping me to heal, forgive, regroup, assess, I love this man which makes this so very difficult to digest, I have not sought a laywer because I believe God wants me to stay still, the way I know that is the peace I have in my heart at just being still, 30 years is a long time. WHy did you separate?

 

[Autumnleaf]

My husband and I are separating after 30 years of marriage. We're both Christians, been to counseling, but we feel that we need some time apart to sort things out. We know all the Biblical things about divorce.

I would just like to know if there's anyone else out there who is going through or has gone through the same thing.

When married people separate to take time apart to sort things out the organized files they make individually seldom look much alike when they compare notes. 30 years is a lot to walk away from. If your counselor is okay with you two separating fire them and find one who is not. You can work this out.

 

[bobbyblackwell]

don't go to a christian counseler. they know nothing.

 

[bobbyblackwell]

must...resist...saying...owned