I have been separated from my husband for over 4 years there has been unfaithfulness and domestic violence from both sides, I have long learned that I cant use the excuse I was fighting back because it wasnt ok for me to do what I did. There has been a few times that we have tried to reconcile. It didnt work. I ended up with permanent physical and legal custody after a almost 3 yr battle with the division of child and family services in which I ended up relequishing rights to my daughter who's biological father left me pregnant I could not physically and emotionally care for her and my boys. M boys have special needs. I have moved on to bigger and better things now. My "husband" helps with phone bill and anything outside of child support needs. I have a boyfriend(I know that it is not the thing I should be ). My "husband" wants to over turn the court order of perm custody to me that was ordered by the juvinile judge over the dcfs case. I am not wanting to do so as he doesnt seem to have learned as to why the judge felt it neccessary to award me custody and him just visitation. I want this divorce done it has been 4 yrs since it was filed it was put on hold due to the dcfs case. Now that dcfs is done he wants to change the custody I am afraid that if I allow him to pewtion for custody that I will lose my kids permanently. My attorney got sick and had to resign what can I do? I am at a loss I want to be free from feeling like I have to answer ti him. I am waiting till marriage for anything( i know about all the stuff about marriage and divorce and remarriage in the bible). I just need advice and support, thanks
