Self esteem question.....

[INFJ]

Have you ever started a different account here cause of low self esteem and anxiety????

I will be the first to humbly raise my hand to that.... see bout a year ago I had another account and I was having GRAVE trouble with panic attacks and all cause of issues...MAINLY me wearing my emotioins on my sleeves... ANYWAY i was advised to start another account by a dear dear friend. SO I did...but AGAIN my emotions took over....WELL I was advised by a DEAR family friend to COOL IT from CF for a while SO I DID and I felt as if I got somewhat "tougher" SO I came back.... things have changed in my life AND i am trying to do what CHRIST would want me to do.... BE LIKE HIM when feel that my feelings get hurt!.... OR just do as my dear family friend says...... TAKE A BREAK from CF!

ANYWAY sisters and brothers I wanted to share that story with you all!

God be with you all if please share your story if you want!

 

[rocklife]

sometimes when I get in tough talks with other people, I delete their pms to me. I don't read stuff I feel will probably be anger attack, especially when I pray. Sometimes people will surprise you though, you can tell if they take it to heart by their later replies to you, if they are nice or not.

people can be cruel, and sometimes people talk in anger and say mean things. Some people just flat out lie. I don't listen when I feel they are going to reply in anger, especially when I share something truthfully. Then I delete all incoming attacks and report as needed.

Jesus says to talk to others when they sin against you. Matthew 18:15. If someone hurts your feelings, you should pm them and share, or just report it if it is too mean, and say that is offensive, hurtful, etc. And pray and let God give you strength, or just let Him have your weakness too

 

[rocklife]

and I know others here have had multiple user names. I even have a thread asking about it in CF discuss rules. They said even some moderators have multiple user names. They call them "socks". you aren't alone

 

[Ruby Moon]

I have learned to take everything and deal with it, I had to start a new account because of the cruelness of people. Not everyone is going to like you, and its something we all gotta deal with people being mean and not liking us, I hope things get better for you.

 

[Jesusfreak4life8629]

Jesus Loves You. Always remember that.

 

[Amin]

Jesus Loves You. Always remember that.

Hey INFJ,

I hope you're doing better today.

I know anxiety can bring on some low self-esteem.

I also want to tell ya, I think your help in my posts sounds like a very confident person.

Maybe when you're helping others,
You feel better about things,

Chuck.