I stumbled across this article and figured I'd share it with you. I've translated it to english as best as I could and I hope it's readable. I'm not sharing this for you to use it as an excuse for playing, but if this is correct in your case or in a friend's case then perhaps after reading this you now know to call your or a friend of yours situation by its right name.
Source: Norwegian newspaper Dabladet
Norwegian Media Authority presented new research results from the Netherlands, determining that children and young people don't get addicted by computer games.
The scientists conclusion is that the term 'computer game addict', can be deleted from our language. The research shows that what has so far been called 'computer game addiction', in eight of ten incidents is really caused by social problems.
- What they're saying, is that when it comes to computer games addiction, we should throw the term in the garbage. We're not doing the youths any favours by using that term, senior advisor Stian Linbøl in the Norwegian Media Authority says to P4 (radio station).
The research has been conducted by Europes foremost treatment institution for computer playing, Smith & Jones in Amsterdam. Among the findings is that the worlds most popular role playing game, 'World of Warcraft', with its 11 million subscribers, don't make addicts of the players. On the contrary, many bullying victims, people who have fallen out socially and in school, and those who don't master certain things in real life, seeks out computer games and spend a lot of time on it.
- They enter an online community, experience that they master the game so well technically, that they become good at it, and that they're doing a good job together with other people in a team. This gives you the very positive feedback that you're good at it and are doing well, Lindbøl says.
Lindbøl encourages teachers and parents to find out why some plays so much, so that children and youths may have backup to experience mastering things in real life.
Source: Norwegian newspaper Dabladet