• The General Mental Health Forum is now a Read Only Forum. As we had two large areas making it difficult for many to find, we decided to combine the Mental Health & the Recovery sections of the forum into Mental Health & Recovery as a whole. Physical Health still remains as it's own area within the entire Recovery area.

    If you are having struggles, need support in a particular area that you aren't finding a specific recovery area forum, you may find the General Struggles forum a great place to post. Any any that is related to emotions, self-esteem, insomnia, anger, relationship dynamics due to mental health and recovery and other issues that don't fit better in another forum would be examples of topics that might go there.

    If you have spiritual issues related to a mental health and recovery issue, please use the Recovery Related Spiritual Advice forum. This forum is designed to be like Christian Advice, only for recovery type of issues. Recovery being like a family in many ways, allows us to support one another together. May you be blessed today and each day.

    Kristen.NewCreation and FreeinChrist

  • Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

save me from boredom and depression

mmreed

... by His wounds you are healed!
Feb 25, 2005
493
32
✟23,301.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Republican
Due to surgery, I am confined to a chair - my only options for entertainment are what is close to me in the room I am confined to... a TV, a laptop with internet connection, a few books and DVDs.

The problem is, that after spending many weeks like this, I am out of things to keep me occupied aand am quickly finding myself becoming more depressed as I just sit around.

I guess my question is... those of you that have similar circumstances - confined and isolated from doing much, what do you do to keep occupied?

I know the usual answers - read, pray, rest, surf the net, watch tv, etc... and Ive done all that to the point I need something else as a diversion.
 

shinbits

Well-Known Member
Dec 4, 2005
12,245
299
44
New York
✟14,001.00
Faith
Deist
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Others
mmreed said:
Due to surgery, I am confined to a chair - my only options for entertainment are what is close to me in the room I am confined to... a TV, a laptop with internet connection, a few books and DVDs.
You know what's funny? This is how most healthy people completely waiste thier lives.
 
Upvote 0

meh

Legend
Feb 22, 2006
32,240
2,553
✟67,433.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Democrat


I have a disability so I don't get out much. I know this sounds stupid, but can you put your chair by a window? I know it sounds silly, I really do, but when I moved my desk and things to a room where I could sit by some windows, I started feeling better. At least I can watch the weather and we live in the country so I can see animals and stuff.

I also call people and pester them until they come visit me. But that's kind of rude. I do it anyway :)

I do work from home, but when I'm not working I do the usual- read, prayer, I do correspondence Bible courses, online stuff, TV. So I don't have many other suggestions. I hope your surgery went well and you heal up soon.
 
Upvote 0

mmreed

... by His wounds you are healed!
Feb 25, 2005
493
32
✟23,301.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Republican
meh said:


I have a disability so I don't get out much. I know this sounds stupid, but can you put your chair by a window? I know it sounds silly, I really do, but when I moved my desk and things to a room where I could sit by some windows, I started feeling better. At least I can watch the weather and we live in the country so I can see animals and stuff.

I also call people and pester them until they come visit me. But that's kind of rude. I do it anyway :)

I do work from home, but when I'm not working I do the usual- read, prayer, I do correspondence Bible courses, online stuff, TV. So I don't have many other suggestions. I hope your surgery went well and you heal up soon.

what type of work do you do from home?
 
Upvote 0

tapero

Legend
Site Supporter
Apr 14, 2004
36,575
1,128
Visit site
✟111,044.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
Hi MMReed, How are your feet doing? I haven't seen a prayer request lately. Be great to read how you're feet are healing.

I wish I had something to share with you. I am home all the time in my small room with the four walls, the tv, and the computer. I am on disability but I can get out but I don't. I'm a mess. ;)

Just want you to know I'm praying for your healing and recovery.

Take care, Tapero
 
Upvote 0

mmreed

... by His wounds you are healed!
Feb 25, 2005
493
32
✟23,301.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Republican
tapero said:
Hi MMReed, How are your feet doing? I haven't seen a prayer request lately. Be great to read how you're feet are healing.

I wish I had something to share with you. I am home all the time in my small room with the four walls, the tv, and the computer. I am on disability but I can get out but I don't. I'm a mess. ;)

Just want you to know I'm praying for your healing and recovery.

Take care, Tapero

Thank you so much Tapero. My feet are slowy VERY slowy healing... I still cannot walk much, nor return to work for weeks yet.

All of this sitting around is really allowing the depression and boredom set in.

Do you have any of the instant messengers? Id love to build my friend list of people I can chat with online. Feel free to PM me to chat!

Its very refreshing to hear from people that truly show concern. Thank you again.
 
Upvote 0

meh

Legend
Feb 22, 2006
32,240
2,553
✟67,433.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Democrat
mmreed said:
what type of work do you do from home?


I'm a paralegal, and now-days there are lots of legal resources on-line and software which allow me to do most of my research from home. It helps a lot.

I don't have messengers or I'd talk to you. I really do understand how isolating it can get. And boring.

Praying for a speedy recovery:prayer:
 
Upvote 0

mmreed

... by His wounds you are healed!
Feb 25, 2005
493
32
✟23,301.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Republican
I know this is a great time to spend with God... and I am taking advantage of this time to do so...

but I am curious what others that are confined to a chair, or room, unable to go anywhere... what they do to occupy time... beyond just watching TV, reading, and the other common "activities".
 
Upvote 0

cassyrode

Active Member
Oct 8, 2005
129
2
34
Fort St. James
✟22,759.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
Ive heard the crying of your heart. I have seen the searching of your soul. I know how deeply you have desired the truth In pain you have cried out for it. When I see you I am overewhelmed with tears and wish to hold you close to me. Go ahead now, Ask me anything. Anything. I will speak to you if you listen. The words to the next song you hear, the information in the next article you read, The story line of the next movie you watch, The chance utterence of the next person you meet. Or the whisper of the next river. The next ocean. The next breeze that carresses your ear. All these devices are mine. I will come to you if you invite me. I will show you then that I have Always been there...

Always.
 
Upvote 0