I agree completely!
Christmas is about Jesus not Santa. As parents how can we lie to our precious children and take the focus off of our Savior.
One suggestion for small children that we have done in our family. We put out the manger seen early in December. Each morning when our children come downstairs, the first thing we do is look in the manger for baby Jesus, if HE's not there it's not Christmas yet. It is such a blessing to see our children grasp the real meaning of Christmas at such an early age.
Day after day, no Jesus in the manger, it is not Christmas yet. Then finally on Christmas morning when the children run downstairs and to the manger and see Baby Jesus in the manger, Shouts of it's Christmas, it's Christmas-Jesus is in the manger, Jesus is born.
Our children grew up, not running down the stairs in anticipation of presents, but looking for Jesus.
We then read the true Christmas story form the Bible, and have a happy birthday Jesus party. Singing Happy Birthday to Him, and blowing out the candles on the cake that says "Happy Birthday Jesus"
Some will say that your kids will miss out if they don't get to believe in Santa, but the truth is that our kids will really miss out if they don't believe in Jesus.
May we teach them the truth and not confuse them with a Lie.
BTW- each of our kids get only three gifts on Christmas- As they shouldn't get more presents on Jesus' Birthday than He did.